Making out...now what?

[Butterwood]

your making out with a girl. How do you proceed to actual sex?
just start exploring?
words/talking about going further
If you can get her to make out with you is it almost a guarantee that sex is soon to follow?

 

[Ronnie84]

Try not to vocalise it , it kinda kills the mood. Just keep going and trying to push it further and further and see how far you get. And no, making out with someone does in no way mean you are guaranteed to get laid, although it is a good start

 

[PlurPsyed]

Nah, there's a long road from making out to sex. Just explore around and gently test her limits

 

[Butterwood]

Nah, there's a long road from making out to sex. Just explore around and gently test her limits

this is kind of what i meant..thanks for putting it in writing though..i was drawing a blank and just left it alone

 

[PlurPsyed]

this is kind of what i meant..thanks for putting it in writing though..i was drawing a blank and just left it alone

ah, well, there ya go. Just don't be forceful and be respectful if she declines.

 

[pastelcircus]

No, it's not gauranteed that she'll willing to go to the next level just because she's making out with you.

However, you can speed things along by touching in a sensual manner. Think lower back, neck, waist, and the place where her hip bones meet her belly. Slow, sexy and strong.

Also, exhale through your nose a little while making out. Sounds weird but it works.

 

[Butterwood]

^i noticed the nose exhaling thing sounds weird but in a kinky way

 

[pastelcircus]

Just be very subtle lol.

One more thing, don't be afraid to pull her hips toward your hips, be it by beltloops or bare skin.

This is a lot less obvious than, say, awkwardly grabbing a boob or trying to stick your hands down her pants

Good luck, dude!

Ps- use protection , aunt pastel

 

[Lysis]

Oh Butterwood, girls are hard to figure out, eh? :0)

Just start with the breasts and then work your way down. Be slow and aware of her responses. If she wants you to stop, stop. Give her time. If she is a virgin too, she is going to be scared and might need you to take it slow. It really hurts like hell for the first time for a girl, so she's gonna be scared and she might want you to stop. Experiment with her but don't force anything, and be very open to making her feel good.

I promise you that the more giving you are to her, the more giving she will be to you and the more experimentation and sexual experiences you two will have together.

My very first sexual experience was with an experienced guy, and he was very patient with me...verrrry patient. He made me feel comfortable, and that is key for a girl who is on her first. time.

 

[Butterwood]

thanks lysis!
maybe im the virgin just lookin for a good time
but there is a girl i have my eye on. we dont talk much cause we work together and well we work instead of play
and she has expressed some interest i think...nudging me.smiling alot.laughing at just about anything. eheh
but she..is just awesome lol