For those of you that haven't followed my 2 megathreads in the Rel. + Sex. forum, here's a quick synopsis:
I'm Timothy, I'm 18 years old and I live in Amsterdam. Contrary to popular belief, this doesn't mean my life knows no trouble.
I've been with my current girlfriend (she's 16) for about a year, and recently things have gotten... complicated.
Tonight she told me she's fallen in love with a friend of her's, a russian guy. He has no feelings for her, and nothing happened.
Needless to say, I felt devestated. She was sobbing, and I wanted nothing more than to hold her, to kiss her, to tell her everythings all right. But everything wasn't alright, the girl I had loved for over a year was no longer really mine.
We decided to break up for 2 weeks.
Later this evening however, things were getting a little more upbeat, and kept stroking her in increasingly intimate places (it was exciting because we had just broken up, and she was of the opinion that this meant that a lot of (sexual) stuff we used to do as partners, we couldn't do now. My opinion differed from hers, and breaking all her little taboo's was incredibly stimulating for me)
However, this now puts me in a position where chronologically:
1. she told me she fell in love with another guy
2. we decided we were to break up for at least 2 weeks
3. we were making out in my bed
Needless to say, I'm confused. I'm not even sure wether I should take back my girlfriend after what happened...
I'm Timothy, I'm 18 years old and I live in Amsterdam. Contrary to popular belief, this doesn't mean my life knows no trouble.
I've been with my current girlfriend (she's 16) for about a year, and recently things have gotten... complicated.
Tonight she told me she's fallen in love with a friend of her's, a russian guy. He has no feelings for her, and nothing happened.
Needless to say, I felt devestated. She was sobbing, and I wanted nothing more than to hold her, to kiss her, to tell her everythings all right. But everything wasn't alright, the girl I had loved for over a year was no longer really mine.
We decided to break up for 2 weeks.
Later this evening however, things were getting a little more upbeat, and kept stroking her in increasingly intimate places (it was exciting because we had just broken up, and she was of the opinion that this meant that a lot of (sexual) stuff we used to do as partners, we couldn't do now. My opinion differed from hers, and breaking all her little taboo's was incredibly stimulating for me)
However, this now puts me in a position where chronologically:
1. she told me she fell in love with another guy
2. we decided we were to break up for at least 2 weeks
3. we were making out in my bed
Needless to say, I'm confused. I'm not even sure wether I should take back my girlfriend after what happened...
