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Love, physically about average girlfriend and whether to settle down?

If this guy is for real then I advocate your solution rangrz (this is HR as it is HR for the human race & the collective take precedence over the individual).

What the OP lists as imperfections are what makes human beings unique. Imagine how boring the world would be if we all looked exactly the same or were all "perfect"? I admit the drooping shoulder could be a deal breaker though. So many people spend time paddling in the shallow water of life revelling in the trivialities the shallow end provides..........

You playing a smartass, but would not yourself take an ugly girl, would you??

Boring world with everyone equally beautiful? I don't think so. It's pretty subjective statement
 
The benefit of the doubt.....

....Physical beauty wanes as age intrudes. What is *MOST* important is that YOU two click. If the intimacy is mind blowing, it's a no brainer! Any Dr. can fix beauty, no Dr. can fix sexual incompatibility. Society's standards should not be your own.

EDIT: My wife is *NOT* drop dead gorgeous. In fact, she has a few extra pounds. Kids do that. However, her and I, intimately, have the most INCREDIBLE sex! We fit like a hand in a glove. She has never had to fake an orgasm and she understands when I cum too quick or she doesn't cum. It's not a deal breaker. We are so intune, it's ok. Would I give this up for a Playboy model? HELL NO! It's more about inner beauty and sexual compatibility than what other guys see with me when I walk into a room. She is perfect, she's perfect FOR ME!

Man up, marry her and have mind blowing sex the rest of your life. Otherwise, move on!

Just my $.02
 
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No one will ever be perfect enough for you; if you dump her and hook up with one of those other "perfect" women out there, you'll find out sooner or later than one of them has a mole on their ass cheek, or a bad habit of pacing when they're bored, or reads nothing but Louis L'Amour novels and you'll wonder why other guys don't have to put up with that crap. So, the search will continue...
 
You playing a smartass, but would not yourself take an ugly girl, would you??

Boring world with everyone equally beautiful? I don't think so. It's pretty subjective statement

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I have found some women to be my idea of beautiful only for others to have other ideas. You really need to grow up mate.
 
Hey, if it makes you feel any better, you're flawed too! Your girlfriend has a minor problem with her shoulders, you have a mental illness called narcissistic personality disorder... so you're even, more or less. Actually, she seems to be getting the short end of the stick here....
 
What was the first thing I thought about after reading the OP post??

This

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I sincerely hope he's making all this shit up.

god damn- snap

this was my first thought

if its real- you got grass is greener syndrome...

it has to be a wind up OR you just aren't that into her. give it up and find someone where the minor flaws are not such an issue. when you love someone shit like that doesn't hang over your mind constantly. if you love em they will just seem cool. do you expect perfection? wont happen in this life...
 
Hey, if it makes you feel any better, you're flawed too! Your girlfriend has a minor problem with her shoulders, you have a mental illness called narcissistic personality disorder... so you're even, more or less. Actually, she seems to be getting the short end of the stick here....

Lmao. Very much agreed.

I've been trying for years to find a girl with symetrical breasts. God must hate me.

Best of luck to you ahahah :P :)
 
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