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Losing virginity soon dont want too look like a total virgin advice?

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Yeah, just come clean (haHA!). Its going to be obvious you aren't experienced, but everyone starts somewhere. I'd suggest you at least try to use your hands and mouth before you go sticking your dick in her. Everything takes practice, but putting the extra effort in should make up for your inexperience. Just try to take your cues from her and you should be fine. Seriously, just relax and enjoy yourself. Most people have an awkward first time, its just part of life.
 
Arouse her with oral and manual stimulation (remember clitoris, clitoris, clitoris), and then go in for penetration. If she is sufficiently aroused by the clitoral stimulation, the intercourse will seem like a nice desert not the main dish.
 
unfortunately living with parents and only part time work with minimum wage i can not afford a prostitute. this was going to be plan b all if all else fails. iv jacked off before plenty of times whilst drunk, its harder to cum cause i have to go faster but i get ther eventually. ok then i wont get too drunk maybe a few beers to get me tipsy . i plan to use my fingers first ( something i also have never done with a girl ) using the 'cum here' (the one where u put ur fingers to the top of her pussy then curl them back and forth ) technique that i saw in a video once. my mates have told me when im fucking to aim the dick on an angle cuz thats where the g-spot is. thoughts so far??? i was also thinking of saying that shes my second girl iv fucked so that will explain why im not so good. i dont have a small dick or anything according to the internet its slightly above the average size will this help to???
 
Come clean. It's much more embarrassing to try to hide it if it's blatantly obvious you have no idea what you're doing because you've never done it before, but even worse, she could think you're NOT a virgin, and are still as hopeless as one! Not that I think everyone is equally terrible on their first try and some probably manage a little less terribly than others, but generally speaking, it is best to accept before the event itself that it will probably not go as planned, and may become a little awkward or embarrassing IF you let that happen (and having lied about it is one way to make it more awkward).

If she'd judge you based on the fact that you're a virgin and it would be a problem to her, then why do you want to be with her? Do you want to be with a person to whom you have to lie for them to accept you?
 
It will be awkward and something horrible will happen. Guaranteed Anybody who say thi is not standard for your first time is a lier.
 
Maniaz said:
She stood me up :X
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Don't get mad just be really cool with it, after all she isn't your gf or best friend..So you gotta take the easy,lay back approach...I would now just her some space to give her some because you do not want to come out looking desperate or mad over her ditching you... I would hit her back up with a text and be like"hey i really want to do something today, are you sure you don't want to hang out because I am going to find something to do tonight, you in or out? either way I am cool with it I just don't want you hanging out with me if you don't want too. "

that should work well I would think, shit like that worked for me many times before, GL
 
Aww I'm sorry,, but maybe some female advice will come in handy for the next time.
Talk dirty to her, but keep it classy- some girls (myself included) like being called a filthy bitch, but others will be very offended. Start with "I'm going to feel so warm inside you" or something along those lines. Let her lead the way, if she wants to be on top, great. Some girls like to dominate. That's good- it means she's going to do all the work. If she wants you to take the lead, it may be time ti play the cute, inexperienced virgin. Girls like that, sometimes. It makes them feel naughty that they're spoiling your innocence. Shell probably feels special to be your first. Being a virgin isnt always a bad thing, use it to your advantage! And please, don't get drunk. Drunk sloppy sex is just... Dissappoiting.
 
Go get a prostitute now!!!
Don't think about it it worry about money, just do it, you won't regret it.
 
The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior so you have got to create a new history.
 
Africanus said:
This fuck is just about you shedding your dicks virgin skin right?

Why u worried bout how she likes it or what she thinks of you.
You didn't say you had feelings or wanted to go out with her.
So she's just there to open her legs while you put you dick between them.
That's it.
Just a means to an end, your end, getting it off inside a vagina.
Don't use a condom, you want your first time to feel the best.
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I really hope this is just a troll because this is seriously the worst advice EVAR and definitely not a fool I would be wanting to "open" my legs for.

Anyhow, possibly getting a girl pregnant and/or getting an STD your first time having sex is just plain idiotic.

Having sex is something that is about mutual pleasure for both people; not just busting your nut.
 
This has gotten very off topic and it looks like the OP does not have this problem any more.
 
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