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Sleek65

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Ive been with this girl for.a week now. Shes only been with one other guy for about a month. So far weve had amazing sex! The only thing which limits me is this medication still in my system which takes away the intensity of sex (and life).

Anyways...i asked her if she had any fantasies or anything and she said no. What i really would like to.do is like her ass for a bit and try putting it in. But i dont know how to approach anything anal with her. One time i stimulated her hole while i did her from behind and she didnt mind.

Any advice on making her really horny and how to introduce new things. She said she likes being hand cuffed. Should i just start kissing her once she comes in the door and be.spontanious or slowly get into it with her. What i love most about her is that she usually starts the foreplay on me! Thanks :-)
 
If I were you I'd approach the whole matter during sex - you said she didn't mind when you worked around there last time, maybe do that again and then while you're at it, ask if she wants to try anything more. Although honestly if I were you I'd take the whole thing quite slowly, get her used to fingers first - if you try to go all the way immediately it might be quite a negative experience that would turn her off it for quite a while.
But yeah. Just ask during sex is my advice :)

You might also want to check out this thread - it doesn't answer your question specifically but it does contain lots of great ideas as for new things to try and ways to be adventurous and all that.
 
Thanks for the input. I already checked that thread out. I think i might just try rimming her next time im down on her or eating her from behind.
I also always felt insecure with my penis size (7-7 1/2 in.)and premature ejaculation. We do alot of.foreplay which helps. I can also keep going after i release.
 
I always have. I guess i dont make her moan like i would like her to. And this is another girl that cant orgasm from intercourse. I still think its small
 
7 inches is absolutely not small haha. Seriously. And too big is not good. You really don't have anything to worry about ;)
I know it probably won't change anything at all for me to say that, but I feel the need to anyway. That is not small.
 
In that case, look into positions that'll really enable you to go as deep as possible. Like missionary except with her legs pushed up and back as far as possible is good for that.
 
I looked up some positions. Hopefully they will stimulate her g spot eugh to prgasm!no
 
Sleek65 said:
I always have. I guess i dont make her moan like i would like her to. And this is another girl that cant orgasm from intercourse. I still think its small
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Moaning is for pornos, hell when I'm having sex I'm not moaning like a banshee.
 
Pagey said:
7 inches is absolutely not small haha. Seriously. And too big is not good. You really don't have anything to worry about ;)
I know it probably won't change anything at all for me to say that, but I feel the need to anyway. That is not small.
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I tried that position about putting her legs extra far on my shoulders and that worked excellent!
 
Sleek65 said:
I tried that position about putting her legs extra far on my shoulders and that worked excellent!
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:)

It's all about angles and not size. As Pagey said, too big and it can get painful. I've had complaints and I'm roughly 8in.

If you're worried about being premmie, fuck her until you're on the brink and stop and eat her out for a bit.
 
First, 7.5 inches is larger than normal. My boyfriend's AVERAGE size is sometimes too big for me, cuz I'm small. So, I assure you, you are not too small.

You've only been with her for one week. If things are boring already? I dunno. They shouldn't be, that's for sure! Maybe she hasn't opened up to you yet. Maybe there is more that she's into, but she hasn't told you yet. You never know! But seriously... sex shouldn't be boring within the first week of dating, lol.

Moaning - not all girls moan. Some girls are quiet. Don't worry about that. Not moaning doesn't mean she's not into it.
If she can't orgasm from intercourse, don't worry so much either! First, it often takes a while for a guy to really understand how one specific female's body works. What works for someone else won't necessarily work for her. If she hasn't orgasmed yet, it will likely come eventually. With my boyfriend, it took me months. Actually, I still can't orgasm from actual sex, only from oral. But it's all about exploring and trying new things and that takes time. :)
 
Sleek65 said:
I tried that position about putting her legs extra far on my shoulders and that worked excellent!
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Glad to hear it :D

And yeah, regarding the moaning - as llama said, not all women do that, and in any case it might take a bit more time before she's comfortable doing it with you. I know with my first BF it took me a couple months before I felt close enough to him to be able to do that...no idea why really, it just felt like a new step to take. So really, don't get discouraged just because she might not be reacting in exactly the same way as previous partners :)
 
I found that allowing my fingers to do the walking helped various girlfriends to achieve climax...........let them walk and find that g spot and then try all manner of things and watch the reactions. Causing a climax simply using my dick was pretty much impossible for me and the partners I was with.
 
How can i really turn her on like prior to foreplay? I know the back of her neck turms her on. She said she gets turned on easy
 
Jeez dude, she actually sounds like freak-in-bed potential.

Let's examine the evidence:
She initiates foreplay
She likes the back of her neck kissed
She wants you to use handcuffs
She doesn't mind you playing with her ass

So... how about as soon as you come in the door, pin her against the wall, turn her over and start licking and kissing the back of her neck until she's really turned on, groping her breasts and slowly working your fingers down to her pussy then take her to the bedroom, give her a good eating before tying her up and handcuffing her - you can then fuck her from behind doggy style, bent over the bed and start teasing her ass... if she has an orgasm you can lube her and see if you can at least make a start! Yum :)
 
Turns out shes coming over tonight :-). She doesnt like her ass played with, she.says shes not into kinky stuff and she doesnt like it hard :-\
 
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