Long time lurker, new to BL posting

[happyday]

Hey guys I just joined and I am actually really happy to be in connection with people who I know can understand how I feel and similar tastes in activities. Please if you can let me know of just some big NO NOs as in regards to what exactly I can and cant type; whether I should always use SWIM or when it isnt necessary would also be helpful. Also I do have some immediate questions that I would love for some self-considered experts to help me out with. Shoot me a message!!!!

Sincerely ~ Happyday

 

[Papaverium]

Greetings, welcome to BL!!

We do not use terms like "SWIM" here. Thanks for asking ahead of time
If you need guidance on the rules, please read the BLUA, for information on what is considered okay, an not okay.
What kind of specific questions do you have? I (or another helpful soul here) can help direct you to the right sub-forum!

 

[happyday]

to be honest, was looking for help in finding vendors, mainly for things like ds and china girl. Idk if that isnt allowed, but i figured Id try. atleast build my community around people who are into those things : D