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live with a gay dude,and im not gay

Ds

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so i live with a gay dude..and im not gay.. this is the only place i have to live atm. having issues within myself about this,so not trying to lead him on thinking im some sissy.which i havnt,ive told him that 'i want to take things slow'.
shits fucking with my head so bad where i'm about to fucking go off the deep-end. dunno if anyone experienced this before, or what. but could use some kinda advice on something! plz
 
Step 1: Go to sleep
Step 2: Deal with your crash
Step 3: Stop sucking that glass dick
Step 4: Sort your shit out and find another place to live

Alternatively
1: Push yourself
2: Go psychotic
3: Crash
4: Let him suck your soft dick
5: Smoke more

You decide..
 
good advice there,i slept last night. i didn't want to stay up any longer.i took a cap of g and ended up scoopingout.wokeup this morning on the same recliner still wearing cloths. i admit, it was going on day 7 no sleep,it was getting scary.

i turned down the fucking glassdick this morning, now i needa sort my shit out now i'm not thinking so scattered.
 
Abject said:
Step 1: Go to sleep
Step 2: Deal with your crash
Step 3: Stop sucking that glass dick
Step 4: Sort your shit out and find another place to live

Alternatively
1: Push yourself
2: Go psychotic
3: Crash
4: Let him suck your soft dick
5: Smoke more

You decide..
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I like Abject's advice here. Go the alternative route D's. You won't know if you like it or not until you try. Can't hurt bro.
 
Lysis said:
I'm confused, D's. you told him you were gay for a place to live? It's not clear.
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It's not clear? I'll spell it out for you.

He wouldn't have said he's "taking it slow" if he was paying rent. Then it would just be a roommate, and he wouldn't give 2 shits about this guy and he wouldn't have to say "taking it slow" in his post at all.

It was definitely, stay with a gay guy for free, or sleep on a cardboard box on the streets. He chose the former over the latter.

My 2c: embrace it D's, learn to love it, you'll have the time of your life. Fight it, and your roommate will just end up kicking you out, and you'll end up in square 1 again.
 
nonononono yal got it all twisted,
i moved here because their nana that lives here passed away and i needed a place to stay right. well the only place that was around at the time was here with the gay dude. he's tried coming on to me and i push him off. it hasn't gotten as bad as what u think.
everyone in the house here that lives upstairs knows this guy is gay, and they think anyone that stays with him that he's taking advantage of me or any guy.
i about flipped my shit when i met some people of the family and when i tell them IM FUCKING STRAIGHT,those people look all confused, so the guy that I've been living with apparently has been telling people we've been doing shit.
thank fucking god i have a date with a girl, thats kin to 'nana' the same folks up stairs. so i wonder whats going to happen there. it would feel so much better to spend time with a cute country girl and spend time with her, and shit maybe get laid.
and if the gay dude here knew about that shit then maybe he will think IM NOT FUCKING GAY.
sorry but this shits got me heated.
 
Captain.Heroin said:
It's not clear? I'll spell it out for you.

He wouldn't have said he's "taking it slow" if he was paying rent. Then it would just be a roommate, and he wouldn't give 2 shits about this guy and he wouldn't have to say "taking it slow" in his post at all.

It was definitely, stay with a gay guy for free, or sleep on a cardboard box on the streets. He chose the former over the latter.

My 2c: embrace it D's, learn to love it, you'll have the time of your life. Fight it, and your roommate will just end up kicking you out, and you'll end up in square 1 again.
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goddamn glad uve fallowed my history or read my blog. and people that are like why u leading him on?
like what CH said, its not like i sleep naked to stay here. i sleep in a uncomfortable ass chair so i dont have to sleep in a fucking comfortable bed with this sissy. i mean fuck
i need work, and fucking alabama im so deep in the country that the nearest anything is so far away. i dont have it as easy as some city folks. theres no bus, the nearest place is a goddamn state prison.
ugh this got me heated.
 
madagasqar said:
i have no interest in "phasing" you, as you put it. i'm just underlining the truth.
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you dont know shit about what i've been through in my life. and if u see it like that then goddamn im surprised you are still a green lighter. or have atleast 20posts.
 
I'm sorry but you sound like a "user" to me.. this is bad dude can't you go somewhere else find a "straight" room mate? Do you work atm? There's other places you know how about stay with another friend?
 
being homophobic has nothing to do with your life situation, or the things you've been through. imo, an averagely intelligent person wouldn't even dare to post this kind of issue, searching for an advice. are you aware that "maybe' there could be a significant number of gay blue(free)lighters here?
and if u see it like that then goddamn im surprised you are still a green lighter. or have atleast 20posts. - this is meant to point out what??? i'm lost.
 
D's said:
nonononono yal got it all twisted,
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Yeah I must be confused or something ;)

sorry I'm on a roll... can't help myself

when i tell them IM FUCKING STRAIGHT,those people look all confused, so the guy that I've been living with apparently has been telling people we've been doing shit.
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Yeah probably because he wants it to happen, and in his mind, he's probably convinced he can get a little something out of you.

D's said:
and if the gay dude here knew about that shit then maybe he will think IM NOT FUCKING GAY.
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Guys can be bisexual, or can experiment, so he's going to cling onto hope as long as you're still living with him.

D's said:
i sleep in a uncomfortable ass chair so i dont have to sleep in a fucking comfortable bed with this sissy. i mean fuck
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First, there is no shame to sleeping in a bed with another guy. Don't fuck up your back because of homophobia or whatever.

Second, most gay guys are not sissies. Maybe the guy you're living with is, I'm not gonna say either way.

But honestly, the fact that you are sleeping in an uncomfortable chair just means you aren't comfortable with yourself brother. That's all.

I have slept in a bed with a man more than once; the first time being on a school field trip. It doesn't make you gay to share a bed. Promise.

Furthermore, the most heterosexual man I've ever met, has shared a bed with men in the past due to homelessness/drug addiction. This doesn't change how I see him as the most hetero guy I've ever met, not one bit.

D's said:
ugh this got me heated.
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When I get all heated and bothered, I like to jerk off for dat release %)
 
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Yeah probably because he wants it to happen, and in his mind, he's probably convinced he can get a little something out of you.

considering Ds difficult life situation, we don't know if messier thing already happened....
 
Captain.Heroin said:
Yeah I must be confused or something ;)

sorry I'm on a roll... can't help myself



Yeah probably because he wants it to happen, and in his mind, he's probably convinced he can get a little something out of you.



Guys can be bisexual, or can experiment, so he's going to cling onto hope as long as you're still living with him.



First, there is no shame to sleeping in a bed with another guy. Don't fuck up your back because of homophobia or whatever.

Second, most gay guys are not sissies. Maybe the guy you're living with is, I'm not gonna say either way.

But honestly, the fact that you are sleeping in an uncomfortable chair just means you aren't comfortable with yourself brother. That's all.

I have slept in a bed with a man more than once; the first time being on a school field trip. It doesn't make you gay to share a bed. Promise.

Furthermore, the most heterosexual man I've ever met, has shared a bed with men in the past due to homelessness/drug addiction. This doesn't change how I see him as the most hetero guy I've ever met, not one bit.



When I get all heated and bothered, I like to jerk off for dat release %)
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CH - are you being serious? Are you really that dense? FFS.

D's man, time to sort your shit out. Really. I know it sucks and it's hard, but it has to be done - either do what you need to do to get better, or live miserably or die. You're not ready to die, so you need to work really hard on your life and your future. You need to get help right now, and you need to believe that things can get better and stick with it. You honestly don't have to live like this <3
 
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