Well, my thinking on fur is thus:
1/ I was brought up vego, and despite my best effort I am still basically vego. (therefore compared to most aussies, I am way on moral high ground in the 'senseless killing' area.)
2/ If it's second hand, especially hand-me-down, it does not contribute to the fur industries expansion and thus to killing more little fluffy things. (Your nannas fur, the fur you find in Vinnies/garage sales for instance.)
3/ If they were killing said animal anyway for eating, it seems better we use all of it then waste the poor animals parts because we're so deeply in denial about our murderous habits. (fur farming however I think has no excuse, it just seems cruelly indulgent. That jewller who uses roadkill is cool though.)
Therefore.... I can wear it.
However if any one gives me any of that: 'OMFG! MURDER!!!!!!!!!!!11!'
I say: 'So what did you have for dinner, lunch... breakfast? Cheese? Maybe some nice animal flesh? And is that.... leather I see? Would you like to talk to me about your doona and perhaps your pillows? Goose down anyone? Oh? Really, and by your logic you're not a murderer and I am. Enchanting. Let me note this down: Second hand fur bad, fresh animal skin shoes belt and wallet good, killing birds and plucking their feathers out good, animal flesh cutlets, wings, torso slices and unweaned calf stomach lining good.... did I miss a contradiction?'
I don't mind vegans who cry about people wearing fur, they have a point, but the whole meat eater in denial thing shits me. If you yourself are responsible for unnecessary often excruciating deaths of animals not to mention hideous living conditions and the traumatic and inhuman slaughterhouse environment in which they are incarcerated prior to death, shut the fuck up.*
*emotive language used to make point only, eating meat is fine, just lets not get too blasé about what it involves. Namely, killing animals for no other reason then that it suits your lifestyle choices. I too eat the stuff, its more convenient for my trashbag lifestyle then having a proper diet with all those legumes and leafy greens. The difference is I don't ask the fishmonger to chop off fishies head and tail so I don't have to face what I'm doing.