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Okay, let me just say now that i'm completely stoned off my ass on heroin but I am still not gloating in any way at all. I was recently reading the book Tweak, about a former and probably current meth addict and it's an autobiography so some of his stories included sex with various women (and men). Anyways, they are all described as amazing and almost trance-like while on meth. meth isn't really my thing so that doesn't really relate to my question. He would always describe as though the bodies of the girls he fucked was like a mold fitting perfectly. Well, whenever I have sex, which I haven't in like 7 months or so due to my drug addiction and my lack of wanting to go out or do anything, but anyways, for me, sex has ALWAYS felt awkward. Don't get me wrong, I still think I'm amazing at it because the girls always moan, cum, and I've even gotten a shower of squirting on my chest once but the problem is my penis. Sex never feels like two bodies molding perfectly together because my penis physically hurts girls when I fuck them. Always, it has never not happened..this leads to sex that is kind of clumsy and non continuous because I constantly have to stop for the girl (unless she's into pain or anal which I've dabbled in). SO my question I guess is, is this a problem for anyone else? I wish my penis was smaller for god sakes.
 
Yanno how they say girls vaginas stretch. After a few sessions with the same girl you will probably find she will fit to your size. There's a break in period ;).
 
that is true. but also bad in a way. with my girlfriend of eleven months we fucked so much of course she got used to it...but...she was also way looser...which was kind of a turn off =\ it suckssss
 
that's what i usually have to do cheerio..but keeping a tempo with just the tip is quite a challenge...eh, seem i'm fucked. pun kind of intended.
 
...can't say I have the same problem. You might need to meet your match?

Some girls prefer really big boys.
 
You can get these things from sex shops, they are like donuts that you put on your dick and when you fuck someone while wearing it, it stops your dick from going too deep without you having to like hold back your thrust for fear of hurting them. They're fabulous!

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holy shit. that ring is AWESOME. thank you for showing me that. i might have to put some money aside for one or two or three or four. thanks a bunch!
 
How large is your penis? Have you tried different positions, such as having her ride you? Or getting her really turned on before you give her vaginal sex?
 
i'm getting kind of shy now. it is almost nine inches in length...pretty thick too =\ and people tell me i'm not done growing yet...shit suuucks. cowgirl is usually the best solution to my problem because she decides how much of it she gets but i like to thrust in that position too...which again leads to pain. and yes, trust me, there is a lot of foreplay to be had usually. .
 
Fingering beforehand can help, especially if width is a problem, although you have to know what they're doing and have really smooth fingernails, or you just end up giving her pussy scratches (not fun).

Also, if part of the pain is from hitting her cervix, try turning slightly to one side or the other so you're not aiming straight ahead; puts less direct pressure on it. (I'm convinced that's why so many guys' dicks curve to one side; they're slowly evolving to not hit the cervix. ;) )

But even if your technique is perfect... Some women like feeling really full and stretched, and some don't. It's an extreme sensation, taking something really big inside yourself, with a whole bunch of things moving around inside your body just to make it possible. For some of us, that's hot; but some women just like the gentler sensation of being less full and hardly stretched at all... same as some guys who do receptive anal (pegging or cock) like the comfort of something smaller, and some want the stimulation of something huge. Different strokes for different folks, is all.
 
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I never thought I'd see a man wish he had a SMALLER penis.
 
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i'm getting kind of shy now. it is almost nine inches in length...pretty thick too =\ and people tell me i'm not done growing yet...shit suuucks. cowgirl is usually the best solution to my problem because she decides how much of it she gets but i like to thrust in that position too...which again leads to pain. and yes, trust me, there is a lot of foreplay to be had usually. .
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Find a woman who can acomodate your penis? They're out there. Also just try having her ride you after turning her on a lot, use lube, and don't thrust if you know it's going to hurt her or if it causes her pain.
 
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