Cogari
Bluelighter
Sure. I'm a bit of a cleanness freak and so are the people I've dated. It's only my fluids and hers, so it doesn't bother me. We wash afterwards, no one has any infections, and we both do the same to each other. I don't see the issue with it, and I've only rarely met women or men who wouldn't, although that's just my subjective experience.