Well, I have had another 3 days in the hospital being able to talk to some very helpful doctors and nurses.
I am lactose intolerant (not terribly so, i get bloated if I drink too much milk or ice cream and can vomit the next morning)
I only have an allergy to goat products (goat milk/cheese)
6 full days of vomiting, I was taking zofram every 4 hours and having hot showers every hour (Complusive, I did not read anywhere that this could help) I have been given pantoloc and it has calmed everything down. I am hoping that I am just dealing the the acid reflux issues I have had in my life and possibly my quitting meat within the last year is a contributing factor. I did get an ultrasound today and everything is normal, gall bladder, intestines, pancreas, liver etc. all good.
I had a good long talk with the doctor that just released me, he was great. He told me that he isnt sure if CHS is real. He said he has seen several young men who are heavy cannabis users who end up with this cyclical vomiting. He brought up a great point. Kurt Cobaine shot dope and smoked lots of weed to ease his life long stomach issues. He wrote many songs about it but was it the chicken or the egg? Same situation with cannabis use and mental degradation in the late 20's or early 30's. Who can really say is the person subconsciously picked up the bong to deal with slowly growing mental problems or slowly growing GI problems.
Since I was 14 I have been dealing with stomach acid problems. I did not smoke pot then, but I would wake up every morning and vomit .5-1L of stomach acid in a very painful fashion. I realized a few years later that a single bong got me on my way to school and the nausea was gone all day. I do NOT smoke as heavily as some who have posted on this page, but, I do smoke .7-1g per day. Sometimes more, and I used to hit it pretty heavy when I was younger.
Regardless this thread has opened my eyes and if it turns out I am just dealing with a GI/acid reflux problem, I will take the warning and cut down big time. It kind of freaks me out to think of my life without pot. I used to be a real hot head as a kid and would freak out over nothing. I have sleep paralysis and cannabis stops it in it's tracks completely.
At the same time I am scared to pick it up again, I havent smoked a cigarette in 6 days so fuck it... im done with them. I always said, to quit smoking you either have to drop me off in the woods SurvivorMan style or put me in hospital for a week. Pot just does so much for me.

I hope this isnt the case.
P.S. The last 6 days have been kind of emotional for me. I have never needed such care, I don't trust strangers and I never really trusted hospital wait staff. I thanked every beautiful nurse that helped me through these days several times, same with the fantastic and understanding doctors. No snickering, no passing judgement... I think I have figured out what I want to do with my life!!
Anyone reading this that is working on being in the health care industry or already is, I commend you absolutely! You should be very proud!