or maybe anyone following along at this point will just roll their eyes and be like "wtf? either you two need to break up or get back together. this pseudo-break up is bizarre and needs to stop"?
unglued's grandparent's are getting really old. i like them. i would like to see them again (maybe more than once?). they are too old to travel. and i don't want to go see them by myself. it is looking like both unglued and i will be back in ohio for the same wedding (the assumption was that unglued, vgoraz and i would attend together. it now seems that i will be vgoraz's date and unglued will take our friend burr.) i told unglued that i would really like to go see his family with him while we are in the same area. we also want to go visit my cousin, who is also getting close to that really old category.
stuff like this really confuses me. i mean, even if i don't love unglued, am i supposed to dislike his whole family too? i've always gotten along better with them than my own family, so that is also a factor. my cousin, that he wants to see again, is sorta a person non-grata in my immediate family. is it weird that he still wants to see my cousin? i guess i should add the my cousin and his grandparents live in the same city, we used to visit both, alternating who we stayed with.
i swear this entire thing would be easier if the two of us hated each other. sometimes i think there is still a glimmer of hope in this relationship. but neither of us is willing to change, so i know it won't happen.
unglued's grandparent's are getting really old. i like them. i would like to see them again (maybe more than once?). they are too old to travel. and i don't want to go see them by myself. it is looking like both unglued and i will be back in ohio for the same wedding (the assumption was that unglued, vgoraz and i would attend together. it now seems that i will be vgoraz's date and unglued will take our friend burr.) i told unglued that i would really like to go see his family with him while we are in the same area. we also want to go visit my cousin, who is also getting close to that really old category.
stuff like this really confuses me. i mean, even if i don't love unglued, am i supposed to dislike his whole family too? i've always gotten along better with them than my own family, so that is also a factor. my cousin, that he wants to see again, is sorta a person non-grata in my immediate family. is it weird that he still wants to see my cousin? i guess i should add the my cousin and his grandparents live in the same city, we used to visit both, alternating who we stayed with.
i swear this entire thing would be easier if the two of us hated each other. sometimes i think there is still a glimmer of hope in this relationship. but neither of us is willing to change, so i know it won't happen.
