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Is 'your type' in porn the same as your type IRL?

Psychonauticunt

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Well?

For me, it's not. My type in porn is big boobs, big butt, kinda trashy looking. Love a good butterface.

In real life I have less of a defined type in terms of looks, but typically someone I would consider really pretty or beautiful is not something I especially go for in porn.
 
If we're talking just looks, then yes. In reality I tend to end up partnered with guys based on a combo of looks and personality, so there is a broader spectrum.
 
Chemsexing mature bear (otter) men.

You bet!

But I watch amateur bareback chemsex porno. Those guys -unlike those pornstars- look just like the guys you can have sex with IRL.

Some live in my country and one I even knew before finding his movies!

Having said this. I love gay bareback (PreP) chemsex, but I hate STI's. So I try not to give in to every invitation.

But pass me that meth pipe...
 
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i don't really go for people in real life anymore... lol... i watch all different types of girls in porn as a guy, all sizes all looks. i dunno, pretty much can be attracted to anything, but some girls don't really look attractive to me... i just like all types of random shit sometimes outside the box but sometimes just stereotypical dude shit. a lot of swim suit model stuff doesn't look that good to me. i tend to go for cute but maybe kinda ugly by some standard girl next door look a lot when watching porn or just thinking girls are cute in general...

i used to pick girls with musical sounding voices over looks... sometimes i think it'd be hot to be with a stereotypically bitchy kinda deep voice with a female inflection... if i had a bunch of money, i'd probably have a partner to have kids and whatever. it'd be nice to have company and be doing something, but i am poor and just spend all my money on myself. i like not having a partner and in my free time being able to watch whatever porn i want or switch up listening to girls on ASMR. i dunno, kind of good i'm not in a situation to be married with kids.
 
I don't really have much of a physical type.
I have a mental type though:
The Don't Fuck Up My Life Type.

Physical type, I'm quite a bit more relaxed with.
I've been with women of all different types of body types, it's not something I think about really past the initial "yes or no, would you give her the D" passing thought.

I also don't really take porn too seriously.
I'm, more interested in the rigging of the behind the scenes kind of stuff of it, kink pun intended, than I am of the packaged fantasy adult entertainment product.

Kink is a little more headspace-heavy, so it was very easy for me to get into that because I like having that kind of a connection to someone I'm with.
I'm very transparent however in the beginning so, I never set anyone up or sell anyone on false pretenses relationship-wise. I'm getting old, ain't got time for it.
 
Well?

For me, it's not. My type in porn is big boobs, big butt, kinda trashy looking. Love a good butterface.

In real life I have less of a defined type in terms of looks, but typically someone I would consider really pretty or beautiful is not something I especially go for in porn.
That's exactly what i look when looking for cam girls. Any recommendations? Looking for a new one
 
That’s interesting! I think a lot of people have different preferences when it comes to porn vs real-life attraction. It’s all about what feels exciting in the moment, but real connections can be way more complex than just looks.
 
That’s interesting! I think a lot of people have different preferences when it comes to porn vs real-life attraction. It’s all about what feels exciting in the moment, but real connections can be way more complex than just looks.

Porn is usually just eyes and ears (we use to have mags, does anybody read those anymore?), sex is all senses.

It stands to reason the outcome is different.
 
I've always been attracted to older women....now that I myself am old I find my attraction to older women are near the same age as me. My preferences have not changed it's just that women my own age turn me on.
 
I haven't watched porn in quite a while, but when I did, it was pretty similar. My type is almost never represented in professionally produced pornography though so I was always watching "amateur" content.
 
Yeah, same for me. In porn I notice exaggerated stuff, but IRL it’s more about personality and vibe than just looks.
 
older women and bbw

i gooned so hard i don't know if i would be attracted to a women that is a healthy weight.

that was a lie, i would give most girls a chance, it's a desert out here for a male that doesn't have a career.


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ppl should post a sfw pic of the archetype they are into

i don't see my preferences changing even though i have stopped looking at porn
 
that was a lie, i would give most girls a chance, it's a desert out here for a male that doesn't have a career.

That's sad.

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ppl should post a sfw pic of the archetype they are into

I have several. Which one should I post?

My lover looks a bit like one, but he looks like him, not some guy from porn.
 
Hmm, guess I'm more interested in the content of the act than the looks of the actors... If the scene is hot in a video, it's usually very much the same as what I'd want for myself. .
Edit: so it's about the personality/ behavior/ the way and what they're doing..
 
Im trying not to watch porn because I know how damaging and addictive it is. But when i watch porn time to time i watch POV. Hard to say who's the guy and how does he look like because I actually have a view on his d. When i would watch porno with an actor well-visible, you know - like a movie I wouldn't chose a guy who's my type. I would just choose the guy who is handsome but not my type actually. Why? Because when I'll meet someone who's really my type snd I will really catch filling i won't randomly have flashbacks from porn with guys looking similar to him in my head. It creates demands, scenarios, may traumatize if you watched really nasty porn with a guy who has features that turns you on, but then realize that you saw him in porn when you were desperated, and horny and alone and you were masturbating for hours.

But like I said - honestly I don't do recommend watching porn.
As I said - I'm 25 yo woman and im doing that to, same with masturbation, its natural

Mn of this forum - what makes you watch it so long and so much on stims like amph, 4-mmc etc? what are you actually looking for in it(body, face position, concrete action)? And what after some drugs you're getting this jerk off phase? I mean after stims when you're alone, why this idea?
Guys can masturbate whole night after some drugs. It's scary how much girls they see during this, sometimes forgetting that most of woman actually don't look exactly like the 50+ he just scrolled looking for something to watch? Of course, me as a woman also happened, that i was laid down in my bad masturbating after 4-mmc or amphetamine. But maybe 5-4 times? How does it works on you so much that you are able to just jerk off for hours, being on 4-mmc, amphetamine or other stim? Im begging you guys, tell me, I ust want to know :D and my curiosity has no boundaries
 
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