Is there hope for me?

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TaZeR

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Alright here's the story I'm 24 years old 6'3 and about 145lbs. My entire life I've been this ultra skinny sulking troll like person. I haven't been able to put on any weight to build muscle and its kept me looking like a child.

People often mistake me for being 11 or 12 years old when I am 24! 95% of the time when I try to talk to a girl around my age or younger her first response is litterly laughing at my face and then asking how old are you? In this weird tone like shes being hit on by a small boy of 12 years old.

This has practically destroyed my confidence and I spend most of my days as a hermit in my home.

Do you guys think there is any hope for me to become a man or will I be a little boy for the rest of my life? I eat about 3000 calories a day I have a hard time eating any more but it doesn't do anything at all for me. Although the quality of the food might not be so great.

Here are is a pic of my situation let me know what you think and what I should do and if and what type of steroids I should be looking for to let me put on massive mass i wanna be like 300lbs fatso! Then I can train hard and cut it all into muscle, this is my dream!

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Don't change for a girl. All I can say is fuck em you don't need them. There will be someone who will like you for you. Don't take the steroids you're fine the way you're.

I know guys who are as tall and skinny as you. People deff know you're not a 12 year old they just think they're funny saying you're. Well I rather you be tall and skinny than look like a guido with a shriveled up dick. I never liked guys with a lot of muscles anyways.
 
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Don't change for a girl. All I can say is fuck em you don't need them. There will be someone who will like you for you. Don't take the steroids you're fine the way you're.
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I don't care so much for the girls but I want a better life, I feel so bad about the way I am I shake and tremble when I have to go outside I feel like im trapped in a little boys body thats why I want to change it.
 
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I don't care so much for the girls but I want a better life, I feel so bad about the way I am I shake and tremble when I have to go outside I feel like im trapped in a little boys body thats why I want to change it.
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Its not the body who makes a person... Its not the muscles you need to work on. It is clearly your self confidence. If you had a better self image then this wouldn't even be a problem.

Work on the inside and then out but do it the healthy way...not with steroids.
 
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Its not the body who makes a person... Its not the muscles you need to work on. It is clearly your self confidence. If you had a better self image then this wouldn't even be a problem.

Work on the inside and then out but do it the healthy way...not with steroids.
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Whatever you don't know me, I know what I need to do to make myself feel good and enjoy life again and its getting fit and healthy. So if you don't have anything helpful to say about it don't say anything at all.
 
Whatever you say... Because obviously you're not happy now but you think using steroids will make you who you want to be? Until then you do that but realize you're still lacking something. That's why you NEED to work from the INSIDE OUT. Now just because I'm not telling what you want to hear doesn't mean I'm not giving needed advise.
 
as a skinny 24 year old man-boy(which i am- 6" and 135lbs) i can safely say that finding someone who likes you for the person you are, not the person you look like, will do more for you as a growing human being than any steroid, makeover, or pill. the confidence you will gain (give it some time, man, some of us are late bloomers) will make you wonder why you ever thought of yourself in a negative light. don't let other people make you uncomfortable in your own skin. be happy with who you are and people will love you for it.
 
Staying fit is working on your inside, the body and mind work in synchronicity, your advice makes no sense your not stating anything specific just using some broad terms. I just mentioned steroids because I have a physical problem of not being able to gain weight and it hinders my attempts at proper exercise because I tire quickly and loose weight from it. You seem to be focusing around the steroid topic too much. I want to improve my overall health mental and physical it is one and the same.
 
Dude what I mean by the inside is mentally not health wise like looks ect.... You do not have confidence and you're not happy. We all know being healthy is good too but it just seems like you believe how you look is your major problem. Now if you're going to bitch at me then I can understand why you don't pick up females because you can't understand simple words or have a conversation.

You just need to talk to your doctor and see what she/he advise you to do. For the gaining weight ect. Just pump up your diet with protein and take vitamins.
 
I just realized you are a female yourself lol, no comment. I don't need hormonal advice.

Can I get some mens opinions who know what there talking about?
 
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I agree with the others on the beauty comes from the inside stuff. But , If your asking if steroids will work for you, the answere is YES. You have a good body to work with . Your thin, Tall and old enough that it should be safe.. People with a build like that can get gains when using steriods and can usually maintain them when off the steroids. traditional steroids like deca or test cyp where made for guy like you . 12 week cycle ,lots of calories and whey protein and some lifting could give you some great gains that will last long after the cycle Ps=be gratefull your not fat being to thin was never unhealthy for anyone. Some guys it can take a long time (30s even) before they gain weight.
 
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Firsst of all you can't turn fat into muscle....you already have low bodyfat so why not try to make leans gains in a short amount of time....stop complaining like a bitch and go join a gym...the gym experience alone will help build confidence....go to bodybuilding.com and read articles on how to perform exercises....invest in whey protein, carb powder, and creatine...

In 6 months you should be able to pack on at least 10 lbs of lean mass on your frame
 
Interesting I'll look into those two steroids you mentioned along with trying to eat a lot more calories, I'll be working out at home though a gym is not an option for me, but I'll have lots of good instructional videos to work with.
 
I'm not into steroids or bodybuilding, or even athletics,
but this thread confuses me.

1. How can you be over 6 feet tall and thought to be a 12 year old??
2. How can you be over 6 feet tall and under 140 lbs?? That's dangerously underweight isnt it? I'm ~5"8 and 150, and I'm a scrawny little basterd.
3. The confidence thing is all that matters you fool. Do normal exercise. You don't just sit there munching on steroids then become Arnold. Start small, like with basic pushups or something. Scary shit!
4. I have a friend with a similar build, but he gets laid all the time due to his being outgoing and loveable. Looks and strength are only a part of the package, my friend.
 
effin roids. Change your diet and start exercising....no need for drugs
 
when i saw the "is there hope for me" title, i thought maybe he had lost his balls due to steroid abuse, or i dunno, become a heroin junky via steroids or something...not "is there hope for me to become a man". if you have to ask that question, probably not!
 
Eat. If that doesn't work then eat more.


You don't need fucking steroids.

Is there hope for you, absolutely not, considering you don't know jack shit about steroids or even lifting for that matter, and already want to go the hormonal route. See how much the ladies will love you when your 11-year old girl chest turns into a 30-year old pregnant woman's chest and your testicles shrink to the size of an average hazelnut. Don't think I've ever seen any 6'3 12 year olds, don't think anybody else has, for that matter. Either you're bullshitting or completely over-exaggerating what people imply.

Sorry for being harsh, but this is not what this sub-forum is here for. Gain 60 pounds of lean mass, then come back to talk gear if you're interested in going that route. In case that girl in this first couple posts wasn't convincing enough for you, this is coming from a man, who "knows what he's talking about". Truth is, you're just a bitch. We all have had issues at one point that we needed to overcome. Guess what? Life goes on, and if you don't want to put work in, you won't succeed.
 
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You need to get over your phobia and self concousness and work out in gym . People are less lazy when in a Gym. Good people will help you in there . Infact some fitness enthusiest might take you under his wing . If you sincerly try and work out 2 hours 3 dys a week and eat more calories you will be noticably bigger and stronger in 6 weeks .
 
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