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MedicalCoding

MedicalCoding

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a year ago I was dating this guy named David. I was 24 and he was 21. I soon found out that he had a different way of things. he claims he was homeschooled in a very religious household.


I found out that he has never been on a date or kissed anyone. he claims he is saving himself for his wife. he claims he wants twenty children. he said that if we have sex it has to be anal.



saving himself?



or just using it as an excuse because he gay?
 
No I don't think so.. I saw this program a while back at how the very religious girls have circumvented the requirement to wait until marriage by having a whole bunch of anal sex instead.

The men seem to have adopted the same ideas.

Don't even try and logic up religion as it has very little.
 
MedicalCoding said:
a year ago I was dating this guy named David. I was 24 and he was 21. I soon found out that he had a different way of things. he claims he was homeschooled in a very religious household.


I found out that he has never been on a date or kissed anyone. he claims he is saving himself for his wife. he claims he wants twenty children. he said that if we have sex it has to be anal.



saving himself?



or just using it as an excuse because he gay?
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homosexuality is defined as "a sexual attraction to (or sexual relations with) persons of the same sex"

is he sexually attracted to, or has he had sexual relations with, men?

if so, he might be gay.

if not, he's probably not.

alasdair
 
Lol. Is anal sex homosexual? I have no idea. Ive actually never done that. But, its like if u really dig a chick, and u grab on her booty etc, then u just wanna be inside it.

I've actually had a lotta friends who had gay crisies. Most of them went the sterotypical route of being extra gay in jest blame other people etc etc. I just don't understand it because I've never been homophobic because I was raised to be non prejeduice.

Sounds like you are having reverse gay crisis. What I find this always stems from is mistaking a female outlook or perception as all people having it. Women all kinda wanna fuck. Men don't think this way. Whenever barely gay things are gay to a woman this imo is a longing to experiment with women.

Unless I just read this totally wrong. Lol.
 
Well I guess he could be.

Or he's just, as he said, religious. I probably wouldn't enjoy dating a guy who wouldn't have sex (oh, except anal sex) and wanted 20 kids but everyone is different.
I do wonder why someone would have anal sex over kissing though. One does seem a bit "worse" if you're religious.

But it is hard to argue with religion.
 
He is probably torn between two worlds. And, he probably hasn't come to terms with that.

He may never have a satisfying relationship until he faces the reality of his impulses.

Is he gay? Why does that even matter at this point?

Honestly, I wonder why some females can't get over the fact that not every guy wants them. Or, that not being wanted by a particular person means someone has their wires crossed.

:?


I just kind of chuckle when people see fit to tell me who or what I am.

:)
 
Noodle said:
He is probably torn between two worlds. And, he probably hasn't come to terms with that.

He may never have a satisfying relationship until he faces the reality of his impulses.

Is he gay? Why does that even matter at this point?

Honestly, I wonder why some females can't get over the fact that not every guy wants them. Or, that not being wanted by a particular person means someone has their wires crossed.

:?


I just kind of chuckle when people see fit to tell me who or what I am.

:)
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Well put :)
I was also wondering why it mattered if he was gay or not.
 
He is religious and straight. Does he talk with a lisp, watch glee, or any other clues of that type? Does he check his fingernails palms up or down? Walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, ....
 
^i actually was gonna respond yesterday, but didnt want to be like gay advocate here. Buuuutttttt. There is actually a series of areas in the brain that have fairly recently been found to distincly and predictably differ between homosexuals and straight people. I could find this info but, it may take awhile; and for obvious reasons, stir up hella shit. I mean, just think of the complexity regarding personalites and relationships.

On another note, gay people have different directions of hair scalp source direction. They also, have different finger length ratios due to hormone exposure in the womb.

;)
 
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