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fruityfly

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SWIM has some reportedly pure mdma and had plans to go roll this weekend. She really wants to go. However a few days ago her bf broke up with her. She has been pretty distraught the past few days.

Is mdma one of those drugs (like acid) where mindset matters? Should she not take it because of her mental state?

Or is it one of those drugs where it doesn't matter, and the drug actually makes you feel better (like opiates)?

Note: SWIM is going with her ex. They still talk and are going as friends (with benefits probably).
 
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As long as you are with awesome people I think it's a good idea. You will realize all the amazing fun you can have without that guy. And I don't mean just from being high, it really makes you think about your life in a positive way.
 
god dammit enough with SWIM people!

IMO mdma does not matter mindset at all because it job is simply to make you happy (ecstasy)

unless you get bad drugs or overdo it there's no way you can have a bad time.
 
Oh the other catch is I am actually going with the guy who broke up with me hah (he will be rolling as well) ... In short we broke up because we fought too much ... but we are going as friends (with benefits maybe)

So another concern is if I get anxious, maybe I will keep noticing how he is acting different around me, and I could just be worrying the whole night about he doesn't feel the same anymore, and feel bad about that.

Or maybe I'll get super emotional and say stupid things to him ..
 
Nah, it doesn't really matter. You should have a good time no matter what. You may even come out of it with a whole new outlook on life.
 
Mdma is capable of pushing you into the right mindset, but it's important to be as positive and happy as possible beforehand imo, you'll have a much more enjoyable experience if your mind is right, setting is important as well.
 
Yea you always have a good time with MDMA. Besides the time when i was alone
http://www.bluelight.ru/vb/showthread.php?t=574235
Dont think that was just MDMA though.

A long time ago I had broken up with my ex girlfriend and was REALLY depressed. That night a friend offered me a pill to pick up my mood and we went to a bar. I was trying to get every girls number in the building that night. Damn I had a good time. I think if anything your friend will forget about her ex...Well, until the morning.
 
1hr after you drop, you will be in his arms and everything will be as if nothing has happened hahah. ive seen this with two of my friends, always on/off relationship. they wouldnt be talking for a few days and when we went out(same freinds) on the weekends i would wait for everyone to have a few drinks then offer everyone a roll(they would say no sober, so i waited to they let there guard down.) and then one hour later they were talking, holding each other acting as theyve been good this whole time. sometimes it worked for the better and other times they went back to how they were the next day or so. either way you will be in ecstasy :)
 
I totally misread your post. If you guys still get along, I'm sure you will do fine :)
 
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I just realized you said you will be rolling with your ex.... well you guys will definately talk out your problems lol.
 
fruityfly said:
SWIM has some reportedly pure mdma and had plans to go roll this weekend. She really wants to go. However a few days ago her bf broke up with her. She has been pretty distraught the past few days.

Is mdma one of those drugs (like acid) where mindset matters? Should she not take it because of her mental state?

Or is it one of those drugs where it doesn't matter, and the drug actually makes you feel better (like opiates)?

Note: SWIM is going with her ex. They still talk and are going as friends (with benefits probably).
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mind set matters with mdma. be relaxed.

i would probably refrain from taking any good drugs until you're in a somewhat happier state of mind.

although drugs have shown they can be a way to work through mental problems. the problems are usually sub-conscious- so absolutely do not take drugs (especially psychedelic drugs) when having particularly troublesome life problems with the expectations of having some sort of "mental breakthrough."
 
not for the roll itself, the happiness of MDMA can cancel out any shit in your life. however, if you are in a bad state of mind, your comedown and post roll depression could be pretty awful.
 
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I just realized you said you will be rolling with your ex.... well you guys will definately talk out your problems lol.
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This is what I was thinking -- it might not be 100% definite, but there is a big possibility that you and your ex-boyfriend will end up talking out your problems (and either coming to terms with the break-up, or come to a better understanding of each other) while rolling. So, if you'll be in an environment where you can actually talk things out and such, it's not a bad idea. If you're going to a concert, or a rave, or something super social - maybe it won't be bad, either, as long as you push yourself to be positive and optimistic beforehand.

Because MDMA causes your system to be flooded (in a good way) with serotonin, it's difficult to not have a good roll. But, as someone said before me, if you're in a bad state right now mentally, it might make you more depressed and in even worse of a state once you've come down. So, yeah...while MDMA can drive your mindset while rolling, set is important for the before and after, too, I believe.
 
Depends on the person. I went to a rave with a friend who had a bad attitude plus was nervous because he had never been to a rave before, we took the exact same ills (press and dose), I had an amazing night, he had a horrible night and just got even more caught up in his negative thoughts.

I'd say as long as you have a positive attitude about it, it will be great :)
 
Yes, you need a good mindset. MDMA will undoubtedly allow you to feel happier easier, but you need to be able to feel happy and some people cannot let go of their negativity without feeling vulnerable.

Furthermore, even if you are a happy go lucky person, if you take a high enough dose and are really rolling, the "rolling" in and out of states of sobriety and the "high" can leave people feeling negative about the fun times coming to an end. If this is the case, then you need to reassure yourself(or someone) else that you're still having a good time, enjoy it while it lasts by making the most of it and not dwelling on the the drop off effect when you "roll" into moments of sobriety toward the coming down.

This is where you go bump some k, chase the dragon and cheer any friends up that may be a tad bummed about coming down hard.
 
As far as the roll itself, I would imagine you'd be fine. However, the comedown and days following could be particularly rough if you aren't in a good place mentally.
 
SinisterMuffin said:
This is what I was thinking -- it might not be 100% definite, but there is a big possibility that you and your ex-boyfriend will end up talking out your problems (and either coming to terms with the break-up, or come to a better understanding of each other) while rolling. So, if you'll be in an environment where you can actually talk things out and such, it's not a bad idea. If you're going to a concert, or a rave, or something super social - maybe it won't be bad, either, as long as you push yourself to be positive and optimistic beforehand.

Because MDMA causes your system to be flooded (in a good way) with serotonin, it's difficult to not have a good roll. But, as someone said before me, if you're in a bad state right now mentally, it might make you more depressed and in even worse of a state once you've come down. So, yeah...while MDMA can drive your mindset while rolling, set is important for the before and after, too, I believe.
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This is very likely to happen. The question is do you want it to happen?
 
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