littlepenguin
Bluelighter
it's alright man. he didn't say many nice things but i think he means well.
no i'm in the wrong here, i know this and she probably deserves better. i need pussy in the same away an addict needs dope. i neeed it. i may need it less than food, water, shelter and my computer but since i already have those bases covered i can move on to the next highest priority - procreation. and i'm too young to go to bars... 6 more months xD. no it's not okay to step on other people to get ahead but nobody is gonna look out for me and my feelings and my needs but myself and it's not my duty to look out for her feelings either. but guess what, i did and for no good reason. the only reason you don't do bad is because you don't have the power to. maybe one day you'll realize that you're just as selfish, just as wicked as i am.
I am not a he, I am a she, thank you.
You say I "don't do bad because I don't have the power to?"
that is laughable, at best...
"it's not my duty to look out for her feelings either, but guess what, i did and for no good reason..."
you're right - it's not your job to look out for her feelings, or anyone else's for that matter... That is, if you weren't dating her. As far as I know, if I am in a relationship with somebody, whether it be a romantic or platonic, I would expect someone to look out for my feelings at times because that's what friends do for each other - at least, in my book.
You get back what you put out - which means, I set myself up to have great friends and lovers who have and do take the time to look out for me and my feelings.
and don't you worry - I will never realize that I am as selfish or wicked as you portray yourself to be, because, well...I'm not. I don't do good duties for others just to gain something - I do it because I want to, and because I believe it's the right thing to do. Sometimes, actually more often than not, I take a hit as a result of this behaviour - hell, maybe you're the right one here - step all over everybody to get where you need to be and to get what you want, no matter who's feelings you hurt - or be a dumb sucker like me and do selfless deeds that have no gain whatsoever and/or cause personal loss.
Who knows? Keep on keepin' on...I hope it works well for you, I truly do.