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Is having small boobs a problem?

ilovecrystal

ilovecrystal

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Hi there BL

I'm a straight female surrounded by men all the time. In the workplace, at home, and all my friends are male. I'm dirty minded and make jokes with the rest of the guys. My only female friend, is gay.

So basicly I'm always hearing comments about girls and their appearances and I have been single for nearly a year. I'm in my early 20s, I'm a UK size 8 with a B cup. I have curve and a little bit of belly. I'm also around 5ft4.

It seems to me that guys only seem to like either big boobed and curvy, or small boobed anorexic looking girls. I'm not totally lacking in sexual attention but it does seem that some guys will just fuck anyone. Am I just that anyone? Do I sound attractive?

I know this is kind of fishing for compliments here :/ sorry about that, but please be brutally honest with your preferences here. Also how can you tell how a girl will be in bed? Seems you lot get it spot on with me :)

Cheers :)
 
I usually prefer average boobs (B & C cups). But in all honesty, the size of boobs doesn't matter much. If I were to date a beautiful gal with A cups, I'd be really happy & content. I actually like boobs with a little softness to them to.

I really hate when petite girls get breast implants. +D-cups on a petite body looks ridiculously fake & like Ehhhhhhhh! A big-time turn off
 
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Curves and belly. Your'e fine. I like curves. Also a belly actually.

Big boobs however do make my jaw drop. But, most women don't have "big boobs". Don't worry about it
 
tbh if i was a girl i would be happy to not get attention from a guy just because of "big boobs"

you could always start a conversation with a guy you like instead of waiting for them to make a move, its the 21st C

lots of guys like girls with smaller bewbs, and i personally am more drawn to face and body overall for attractiveness, rather than som1 looking like a pornstar
 
Thank you this is very reassuring :) but what makes a woman attractive overall? what do you make of skin, hair colour and personality. I'm finding guys who like absolute bitches who don't know how to be in a relationship. I'm finding they like girls who want it all to be about them. What's with that?
 
ilovecrystal said:
Thank you this is very reassuring :) but what makes a woman attractive overall? what do you make of skin, hair colour and personality. I'm finding guys who like absolute bitches who don't know how to be in a relationship. I'm finding they like girls who want it all to be about them. What's with that?
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I'm thinking its probably guys lacking maturity who prefer only looks over a genuine personality. Some guys like the generic fashionable barbie doll chic (does stupid lip poses with a trucker's hat kicked to the side) who's only interest is getting her hair/nails done & shopping. You know who I'm talking about. Screw that & no thanks!
 
There's nothing wrong with not having giant tits. Personally, I have never been one to select a partner solely based on looks, let along boob size. I think it's fairly shallow to do so. Any guy that does isn't worth the time of day, imo. Females with a broad spectrum of interests and with a high intelligence have been the best lovers, from my point of view.
 
Things thay attract me to a woman are decent curves, a thinish waist, size 12 or below at the most.
A nice bum is the mait trait I look for on a woman , tits mean literally nothing to me. Though the shape does sometimes, I would suggest wearing a push up bra and a low cut top, very sexy even if they are small, I personally love it.
I prefer women to be 5"6ish or less, I like them Much smaller than myself....

To me, if you have a nice peachy bum you sound fucking sexy to me, literally what I look for in a woman
 
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I actually tend to quite like smaller titties. Anywhere from B-C is good for me. I don't find big tits that attractive tbh.
 
Most men will take any chance they can to suck on some titties so I wouldn't get too worried, and in my experience most men are far more concerned with shape of boobs than size.

I know that I would be more than happy to have the opportunity to play with a nice set of B cups tonight. I wouldn't say I really have a preference with regards to size, variety is the spice of life. A pert pair of b cups sounds pretty fucking attractive to me though.

It may be that you're particularly attractive and men are too intimidated to crack on to you, it's impossible to say. Why don't you crack on to some men and see what happens? It's impossible to tell how a girl will be in bed, everyone is different.
 
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Every guy likes someone different. I'm curvy, size D boobs, I've got a butt... and that appeals to quite a few guys, I have found. One of my closest friends is tall, skinny, hardly anything to her (boobs and butt) and she gets hit on a lot too. I have friends of all size and shapes and they are all good looking in their own way. It really depends on the guy. There are a lot of things that you need to keep in mind. Guys aren't looking only for looks. Yes, looks is helpful to start talking to someone. Like, if you're in a club and there are five potential girls to hit on, clearly they will go for the most attractive. BUT each guy is going to choose someone different. One guy likes the curvy girl, the next guy likes your shape.

No, you won't always appeal to everyone. No one will, that would be silly. But you WILL appeal to quite a few people anyway. And getting after that first initial "I approached you just because of your looks", then it's all personality from there.

And, like the others have said, you've also got to approach guys! Maybe the guys who are into you are shy, and scared to talk to you. You never know. But if you want to date someone, you've got to make the first move!!! :)
 
llama112 said:
Every guy likes someone different. I'm curvy, size D boobs, I've got a butt... and that appeals to quite a few guys, I have found. One of my closest friends is tall, skinny, hardly anything to her (boobs and butt) and she gets hit on a lot too. I have friends of all size and shapes and they are all good looking in their own way. It really depends on the guy. There are a lot of things that you need to keep in mind. Guys aren't looking only for looks. Yes, looks is helpful to start talking to someone. Like, if you're in a club and there are five potential girls to hit on, clearly they will go for the most attractive. BUT each guy is going to choose someone different. One guy likes the curvy girl, the next guy likes your shape.

No, you won't always appeal to everyone. No one will, that would be silly. But you WILL appeal to quite a few people anyway. And getting after that first initial "I approached you just because of your looks", then it's all personality from there.

And, like the others have said, you've also got to approach guys! Maybe the guys who are into you are shy, and scared to talk to you. You never know. But if you want to date someone, you've got to make the first move!!! :)
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llama112 is pretty much spot on right here
 
Honey, there's nothing wrong with being thick with a small breast size. I think it's actually sexy.

ilovecrystal said:
Hi there BL

I'm a straight female surrounded by men all the time. In the workplace, at home, and all my friends are male. I'm dirty minded and make jokes with the rest of the guys. My only female friend, is gay.

So basicly I'm always hearing comments about girls and their appearances and I have been single for nearly a year. I'm in my early 20s, I'm a UK size 8 with a B cup. I have curve and a little bit of belly. I'm also around 5ft4.

It seems to me that guys only seem to like either big boobed and curvy, or small boobed anorexic looking girls. I'm not totally lacking in sexual attention but it does seem that some guys will just fuck anyone. Am I just that anyone? Do I sound attractive?

I know this is kind of fishing for compliments here :/ sorry about that, but please be brutally honest with your preferences here. Also how can you tell how a girl will be in bed? Seems you lot get it spot on with me :)

Cheers :)
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Natural boobs are beautiful, regardless of size. Show 'em off more.

You don't sound confident and sexy - you sound worried and self-deprecating. Just because there certainly are people who'll sleep with anyone, it doesn't mean that all sexual attention comes from such people, right? You can't really put all men in the same box: some love huge boobs, some love small boobs, and still more love boobs in between those two extremes. There are probably men who like square boobs, though I don't know how you'd test for such a preference...

If you want attention from guys, you shouldn't always wait for them to come to you. I'm saying that you should initiate it and use what you've got. Be bolder and more confident. Speak to guys and ask them if they like your tits. Then grab their hands and tell them to give you a feel. I expect most, if not all, will give you a positive reaction! ;):p
 
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even when guys have body-type preferences, they usually have a couple/few different body types that they like.

Honestly hard to tell much from your description. It's possible you fall into a "cute" category based on the info you gave. ( early 20s, I'm a UK size 8 with a B cup. I have curve and a little bit of belly. I'm also around 5ft4.)
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a good attitude + good style + a somewhat attractive body will put you in the top 70% or so pretty much automatically.
Yes, that would put you into the "anybody" category(although still better than 70% of them), but your personality, style, sexuality, etc... would be what really defines you from the rest of the "anybodies" in terms of desirability.
 
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