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Is a rubbish blow-job better than no blow-job at all?

Is a rubbish blowjob better than no blowjob at all?

  • Yes

    Votes: 25 31.6%
  • No

    Votes: 36 45.6%
  • I am undecided

    Votes: 6 7.6%
  • I wouldn't know because I don't have a penis

    Votes: 12 15.2%

  • Total voters
    79
  • Poll closed .
I think the idea is that it's purely aesthetically pleasing to have a girl be willing to want to please you like that, but in practical terms the pleasure from a terrible blowjob is, well, terrible, and I do what I can to cut it off and move the sexy time onto more fruitful adventures unless the girl is young and wants to be taught how to do it right, then I'll be patient.
 
a bad blowjob is pointless.

the whole point is to produce pleasure in another person using skills that are cool to learn. a bad blowjob goes against the ethos of the true blowjob which is for some else's pleasure.

the point is to control the level of pleasure that another person feels- this is what oral sex is all about.

its about giving
 
"a bad blowjob is pointless."

Couldn't agree more.
I was simply trying to relate to what the OP could've possibly been talking about when I talked about aesthetic value, but I think the male in the OP is being a little dumb personally. Way too much credit is given to a girl for "being hot" (which is basically just a passable level of symmetry and body fat percentage) that dumb guys potentially ruin it for the rest of us by making girls think they can do no wrong simply if they're hot. I think this thread runs the risk of sending girls the wrong idea that they don't need to perform well.
 
Depends on the level of sketchiness; to an extent, it's not really an issue. But I fully intend to leave the room with myself in one piece, ya know? %)
 
I've had some horrible blow jobs. I've had some wonderful ones.

Sometimes there is a point in which I want to ask the person, "Wanna have sex instead?"
 
from a personal standpoint, due to the multitude of precursors involved (age, frequency, experience, relationship status, personal drive, desire etc) in the question; can only speak for myself and better half.

any intimacy (good, bad and or half assed) is better than no/lack of/desire for intimacy.

...kytnism...:|
 
My best BJ remains the one from my first GF, who could suck the shine off stainless steel; I eventually had to tell her to stop, because I was sure she was going to kill me. Not one since has been especially memorable, though one wonders how much of that is simply because the novelty is gone. But, I take what I can get.
 
My best BJ remains the one from my first GF, who could suck the shine off stainless steel; I eventually had to tell her to stop, because I was sure she was going to kill me. Not one since has been especially memorable, though one wonders how much of that is simply because the novelty is gone. But, I take what I can get.

8o Whoa.
 
I've never been a fan of receiving BJs mainly because very few females are even good at it.
I would rather skip the BJ, and continue on with the sex sessions instead.

Surprisingly the very few women I've met that were skillful at giving BJ were the ones I never expected to be the deviant type.
 
Sort of. I can't climax from a rubbish blowjob, and then I feel bad about my partner having put in 20+ minutes of awkward effort and possibly feeling bad about herself. Open communication tends to prevent sexual rubbish.

ebola
 
Sorta on topic... I've given my guy four blowjobs so far... I was terrible at the first three times and was sooo close to just giving up, but last night I managed to do it right. :) I was so chuffed!

His stuff tastes awful though, he's on strict instructions to eat lots of citrus fruits from now on.
 
I'm very particular about getting mouthed. You have to know how to take directions or else we're gonna get nowhere and that's no fun!
If a guy insists on not listening then he's wasting both our time and the whole experience will suck and I won't be coming back.
I'd rather you take the time to do it right. If you can't then there are other, although lesser, ways to please me.
 
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