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DrunkardsDream said:
Also some of the best relationships I have had with bi and gay men happened because we were friends first and met in public and not online, on cellphone apps for hooking up, or in a bar or dance club.
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Yes! It's so true! I can't get into it as much when I don't have a connection. I don't know how people just hook up like that. I've had people I'm super attracted to after a first date, but we had great conversation and hung out first. I don't know how people just look someone up in craigslist or whatever. I actually wish I had it in me, but I don't.
 
Maybe the guy not replying to you is thinking he ' is doing it harshly' to you - I think its strange that your confused about this guy's reaction when your also not adult enough to let the other guy how you feel.

Once people realize that you can't just ignore people after a date and hope they get the message the better for everyone. Gaydar is pretty well know for having a lot of fakes, liars, bullshitters etc - You really owe it to yourself to first understand what your looking for and let the other guy the same also (before hooking up).
 
Bearlove said:
Maybe the guy not replying to you is thinking he ' is doing it harshly' to you - I think its strange that your confused about this guy's reaction when your also not adult enough to let the other guy how you feel.

Once people realize that you can't just ignore people after a date and hope they get the message the better for everyone. Gaydar is pretty well know for having a lot of fakes, liars, bullshitters etc - You really owe it to yourself to first understand what your looking for and let the other guy the same also (before hooking up).
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yeah what happened was after the date we were texting each other a fair bit then just stopped replying. anyway i'm over it now.

your right about gaydar. i always thought it was just hook ups but besides that i'm finding it hard to come accross gay men in real life in normal situations which is the real problem. this dude is just a blip on the radar but i am still stuck with the issue of not coming across enough gays in normal circumstances
 
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