Psychonauticunt
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There's a ton of talk in the public sphere (mostly online) that women don't get off from penetration, only clitoral stimulation. This is often accompanied by a footnote saying erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation are no problem at all, 'cuz you can finish them off using your tongue, fingers, or a toy.
While the premise is undoubtedly true, my experience with women (roughly 50 different partners) indicates that most are, in the way that men are criticized for being, intercourse-centric. It's alright if you can't get hard or you bust a nut too early - once in a while. I have rarely encountered a woman who seemed more interested in me eating her out or fingering her than penetrative sex. Many of them have then, during intercourse, used their fingers or a toy to stimulate themselves, or asked me to do it, but I still wonder. For all the talk of men being all "dick in, dick out, bada-bing bada-boom, done", most women are at least as interested in the penis-vagina part of the sexy-time as they are in the part that is exclusively intended to make her climax.
Maybe it's a social thing, 'cause penetrative sex is the norm. Thoughts?
While the premise is undoubtedly true, my experience with women (roughly 50 different partners) indicates that most are, in the way that men are criticized for being, intercourse-centric. It's alright if you can't get hard or you bust a nut too early - once in a while. I have rarely encountered a woman who seemed more interested in me eating her out or fingering her than penetrative sex. Many of them have then, during intercourse, used their fingers or a toy to stimulate themselves, or asked me to do it, but I still wonder. For all the talk of men being all "dick in, dick out, bada-bing bada-boom, done", most women are at least as interested in the penis-vagina part of the sexy-time as they are in the part that is exclusively intended to make her climax.
Maybe it's a social thing, 'cause penetrative sex is the norm. Thoughts?
