so i met this girl at work that has a boyfriend ( he has been working in another town for 6 month and has to work there for 6 more months) and i rly like her
she already started talking to this other coworker for a couple of months but i asked her if there is something between them and she said no
anyway we met a couple of times at her house its was great we laughed we cuddled but it was weird because she was talking to this other coworker even when we were toghether she said its nothing they are just friends
3rd time i went to her house things got a little physical (not sex just some touching)
she said that we should pretend like it never happened i was kinda ok with that but the next day she found out that i talked to a coworker about the problem she has with her boyfriend she got mad and said that she doesnt wanna talk anymore but after 2 days she started talking to me again sending me picture of her ( normal ones not naked) and i would always say she is beautiful and she would send me hearts in messenger stuff like that
but now she stoped initiating conversations again she keeps talking to this other coworker i asked her if she wants to be with him she said no and i told her if we could meet sometime and she said that its not a good idea because things might get physical again and we might end up having sex ( i dunno if thats suposed to make me proud or sad)
its been 2 weeks since we actualy had a conversation we talk but nothing special just " hi"and "how are you "
she is still with her boyfriend they havent broken up yet but she keeps talking to this other guy alot he lives near her they go eat toghether and stuff like that
was what we had just for fun or was it something more? i dont understant i dont know what to do from here and is it worth it considering what she did and does while her boyfriend works in another town?
she already started talking to this other coworker for a couple of months but i asked her if there is something between them and she said no
anyway we met a couple of times at her house its was great we laughed we cuddled but it was weird because she was talking to this other coworker even when we were toghether she said its nothing they are just friends
3rd time i went to her house things got a little physical (not sex just some touching)
she said that we should pretend like it never happened i was kinda ok with that but the next day she found out that i talked to a coworker about the problem she has with her boyfriend she got mad and said that she doesnt wanna talk anymore but after 2 days she started talking to me again sending me picture of her ( normal ones not naked) and i would always say she is beautiful and she would send me hearts in messenger stuff like that
but now she stoped initiating conversations again she keeps talking to this other coworker i asked her if she wants to be with him she said no and i told her if we could meet sometime and she said that its not a good idea because things might get physical again and we might end up having sex ( i dunno if thats suposed to make me proud or sad)
its been 2 weeks since we actualy had a conversation we talk but nothing special just " hi"and "how are you "
she is still with her boyfriend they havent broken up yet but she keeps talking to this other guy alot he lives near her they go eat toghether and stuff like that
was what we had just for fun or was it something more? i dont understant i dont know what to do from here and is it worth it considering what she did and does while her boyfriend works in another town?