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If she doesn't like me, why doesn't she just leave me alone?

The friendship is diced. At first when I read your story I wondered if you were getting your signals crossed and wondered if this lady just looked at you and treated like a good friend; but it seems maybe I was wrong. Which means its been very unfair to draw you into her confusion and toy with your affections. Unfortunate she wasn't able to clarify boundaries as it seems she may be unhappy or not getting 'something' from her husband hence the flirtatious overtones that caused both of you confusion.
Still, not a very nice thing to do.
Hopefully you'll meet someone you really like and who's single. It'll be weird working around her but perhaps with some time, it'll simmer down.
good luck
 
Maybe you are enjoying the drama that she creates? Because it seems that you keep going back for more. You should cut your losses and find a woman who isn't so conflicted and afraid of what she wants.
 
Well it finally happened. We went out last night with some friends and we got drunk. All night she was rubbing my leg under the table while I talked to ber friend who she was pretending to set me up with..

As soon as the bar closed we 'split a cab' which turned out to consist of us going to the central park in my city and ravaging each other for 2 hours.. Wow, what a release! Months of sexual tension were finally unwound a little and it was insane.We couldn't keep our hands off each other. Hot, heavy and awesome. The chemistry was electric.

She texted me a few times today mostly talking about her hangover... I tried to steer the discussion a little but she wasn't biting. I know she remembers, she wasn't completely smashed. I hope work isn't awkward tomorrow. I really like her.
 
i'm not gonna lie, this thread is very juicy, but you're breaking up a marriage ( a shit one at the sounds of it) and at the same time she is just using you. I have too had this kind of excessive touching under the table shit/having them rub their crotch into my hand (more than once) when people are drunk. But do they give a shit about you when they are sober?

if they did they would be with you...
 
Well, I think that if you don't like to meet or love her and you need alone, then you should directly tell her that you don't want any kind of relationship with you and you should also realize her that she has a fiance, don't be betrayed him. I think, this is a good way to reject her.
 
Have fun in your love triangle loser. Home wreckers like you set a bad name for males. I hope you get all the sloppy seconds of the hiv infested sluts who agree to cheat with you.

P.S. I hope someone gets to make your girl moan whal your on one of those business meetings mate (its obvious you want a girl but lack the dignity and respect to obtain one). happens all to often to your scum and the world rejoices for a seconds and laughs at your pathetic love triangle.

cheaters cheat on cheaters... idiots stay idiots.
 
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O.P,

When I first read your original post I responded with an open mind thinking you were getting your signals crossed and then wondered if she was simply flirting with you to gain attention.
Then I read further and it seems your fully aware as she is with all you two are up to. Pretty flippin cruel man. I feel for the fiance.

She's cheating on her man with you. = pattern.
 
At the end of the day the OP has clearly fallen for this girl. She is in full control so don't you think its a bit harsh to call him a home wrecker? Especially when she's making out she has a shit "home" anyway.

We've all been there. Falling for a girl we will do anything for. She was rubbing his leg that night. She insisted having sex THAT night even though he's wanted it longer.

The sucubus has spoken and she is just as much a home wrecker as the OP.

Still, your're up shit creek eitherway. What if her husband finds out? This has clearly opened another can if worms with worse consequences. Stop now cos she is using you. You're gonna get hurt on way or another by the end of thus crazy love affair.
 
Just be careful. Tough situation really. Hope you know what your getting yourself into.
 
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