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If I start dating again, do I need to lie about being a "trafficker"?

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I sell an illegal drug, and in my country they would consider me to be a "trafficker". There's a large cash reward for information leading to the imprisonment of such "traffickers". All I do is sell a product to a customer as professionally as I can in an industry that is unfortunately marred with violence, which I am not involved in whatsoever.

I'm in my 20's but haven't been dating lately because I've been so busy... However I have some time now and I'd like to start, only I'm worried about people I date getting mad for one reason or another, or just wanting money, and reporting me. I could probable lie and say I do something else. But do I need to? I hate lying but am tired of being alone and can't just trust random people on dating sites.
 
i see no reason to bring something like that up on the first date.

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I don't know why anyone would tell anyone that they are breaking the law. Do you want to go to jail?
 
^Well that's a bit of a strange thing to say on a drug forum no? :?

OP it's certainly not something I would spread around but I guess if you were getting serious with someone then yes, you definitely should - it would be really unfair for them if you hid it.
 
I wouldn't say anything, at least until you put a ring on her finger and know where her family lives.
 
I would be reluctant to reveal this until you feel the person is trustworthy. Even still, you think you know and trust somebody and they can sell you out just to be spiteful. I've had a blowout with an ex who phoned my dad and told him I was a junkie prostituting drunk. Yes my alcohol problem isn't a secret and he also helped my get off prescription pain meds two years ago. No, I've not prostituted myself but hung with my sister who does. When a partner gets angry, you can never predict what he/she will tell people, especially authorities about you.

Be careful about your personal business. You can be creative and say you're a DJ or videographer or website developer. Whatever occupation you choose. Anything but drugs because then she has something "on you." Or feel she owns you now and anytime you quarrel, that's the first thing she will threaten you with. Maybe I'm too untrusting nowadays, but I wouldn't risk it.
 
Pagey said:
^Well that's a bit of a strange thing to say on a drug forum no? :?

OP it's certainly not something I would spread around but I guess if you were getting serious with someone then yes, you definitely should - it would be really unfair for them if you hid it.
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Online is different from RL.

WE'RE ALL FUCKEN LIARS.
 
Pretty_Diamonds said:
Online is different from RL.

WE'RE ALL FUCKEN LIARS.
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Well said PD! ;)

OP, seriously get out now while you still can, and find a legit job even if it pays less you are saving yourself and keeping safe. Don't think for a minute that you are anonymous or under the radar from people in your country who are as you wrote very violent.

If you are where I think you are or could be from, NEVER admit to anything and NEVER tell anyone even people who you date or get into a long term relationship or even marry as in some countries everyone knows someone who is in organised crime or involved in it at some level, and these people can be their close friends and close family members. Keep in mind that even the people who claim they are trustworthy or who are even part of this organisation will rat you out for a large sum of cash/reward money.
 
If you meet a good person, don't take her down with you. It's your decision to risk prison or death, but you can't make that decision for someone else.
 
keep that shit to yourself as if the relationship goes sour then it would be the kind of thing a crazy ex could use to put you in jail

jesus i mean come on. how obvious is that...
 
Pretty_Diamonds said:
Online is different from RL.

WE'RE ALL FUCKEN LIARS.
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I was talking about real life, some people know about my drug use which could potentially land me in jail, and I'm sure that's the case for lots of people here. Not to say the OP should go around telling everyone, dealing/trafficking's rather different :p
 
Pagey said:
I was talking about real life, some people know about my drug use which could potentially land me in jail, and I'm sure that's the case for lots of people here. Not to say the OP should go around telling everyone, dealing/trafficking's rather different :p
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Using and dealing ARE two separate things.

P.S. I love how everyone assumes the OP is a man! Girls can be dealers too. :p
 
pofacedhoe said:
keep that shit to yourself as if the relationship goes sour then it would be the kind of thing a crazy ex could use to put you in jail

jesus i mean come on. how obvious is that...
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Exactly what I was thinking.
 
if you are just looking for sex then lie through you're teeth, if you are wanting a relationship; honesty is the best policy.
 
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