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If I start dating again, do I need to lie about being a "trafficker"?

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Yeah true...I mean that's a very good point but thing is, if I were going out with someone and they happened to be a dealer I'm pretty sure I'd notice that something was up - and if they stayed sneaky about it and refused to tell me what was going on/pretended nothing was, well it's pretty likely I'd eventually end the relationship. I just don't see something like that working out, even if the dealer were actually doing both parties a favour :\
So the way I see it, either the dealer has to be incredible at keeping it a secret so that the other person doesn't notice anything weird at all, or they've gotta tell them and hope neither of them gets screwed over in the process. But in any other scenario something would go wrong eventually.
 
you shouldn't lie. Use your discretion - if you're dating for a fuck, then yeah don't mention - if ya gonna lie, lie by omission. If things get more serious, or seem like they could be really relationship-promising don't lie bruv. I also suggest getting a new occupation that you're proud of, unless ya peddling the cess, then good luck. ANything else should not be treated as a commodity, most definitely not an occupation - soul and creativity destroying.
 
if you're hiding that big a part of your life from someone, you're never going to establish the kind of trust you'd need to tell them. if you don't tell them, you'll be constantly worried that they'll find out. if you do tell them, you'll be constantly worried that they'll tell someone. the truth is, if you want to have a serious, honest relationship with someone, you're probably going to have to change professions.
 
Dude if you really have to ask that question, you should question the business you are in. Just Sayin.
 
versatile said:
Dude if you really have to ask that question, you should question the business you are in. Just Sayin.
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I agree, you are full of shit. I was never any trafficker but I've done some heavy shit in my 49 years. If you are asking about relationship questions you are not for real. Have a great imaginary life.
 
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^^ Seems a bit harsh.

Maybe the OP is just young and new to the concept of including someone else in their chosen lifestyle.

Seems like a smart thing to think this kinda thing through - rather than rush into anything potentially damaging.

Fwiw, if you choose that lifestyle you should have as few ties as possible.
Trust no one.
 
^how can we know if it is true either way? all we can do is offer advice and some opinions will not be very diplomatic.

personally i think that this career will prohibit a normal balanced relationship/family life
 
Be aware that what you tell her may or may not make her an accessory if that day ever comes. There is no easy answer to this but it from what i understand it usually boils down to choosing between a life full of lies VS leaving the person you love open to legal repercussions for what they do know.
 
badandwicked said:
Yes indeed, get yourself a good gangsters mole




The best (only) way to keep a secret is to not tell anyone.
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^I agree. Keep it to yourself for as long as you're able to. I sometimes traffic myself and still don't tell any details of why I leave late at night and/or come home in the early morning. Yes at first he was like "what the fuck" but one day we went to the bar and talked about it over a beer. I pretty much just said, "If you ever feel uncomfortable or feel as if i'm lying to you then just talk to me but I don't want to involve you because you don't use and I don't want to put you in a situation where you could possibly get in trouble. The less information you know the better"

To this day he doesn't question my activities and I help him feel secure in our relationship and reassure him constantly. Also if I am going on a long run I tell him I've got some business to take care of. Or I normally just say I've got some errands to run tonight--just so he knows I won't be around yet he doesn't know who what were when or why....

Every person you tell gives you a 10% higher chance of getting caught. Don't be stupid and keep your head on straight.
 
Gangsters moles are my best source of info! If it wherent for the moles behind the men I wouldn't know nothin
 
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