*sunflower *
Bluelighter
um *blushes and giggles*, you charmer you hastey ....
A lot of what you said really rings true for me, i havent been through a divorce nor do i have children BUT i have lost someone very close to me and your post made me think about this.
I dont want to go into specific details, but this person died and it changed my life in a kind of negative way for a while. I didnt want to be close to anyone for a long time because i was worried i'd be hurt when they left, or, that something bad might happen to them. I closed myself off from a lot of people, including close friends and family who wanted to help me. I regret this, but have now come to terms with a lot of the negative feelings i had about this situation and feel more at peace about it.
If anyone has experienced this, please dont shut people out, let them into your life, we all need people close to us, whether its physical or emotional, this is so important!
Ok, i'm rambling now *smiles*, hastey you know what i'm talking about ....
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~peace out~
A lot of what you said really rings true for me, i havent been through a divorce nor do i have children BUT i have lost someone very close to me and your post made me think about this.
I dont want to go into specific details, but this person died and it changed my life in a kind of negative way for a while. I didnt want to be close to anyone for a long time because i was worried i'd be hurt when they left, or, that something bad might happen to them. I closed myself off from a lot of people, including close friends and family who wanted to help me. I regret this, but have now come to terms with a lot of the negative feelings i had about this situation and feel more at peace about it.
If anyone has experienced this, please dont shut people out, let them into your life, we all need people close to us, whether its physical or emotional, this is so important!
Ok, i'm rambling now *smiles*, hastey you know what i'm talking about ....
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~peace out~
