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Ideas to Spice Up a Sex Life

Pariahprose

Pariahprose

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My gf and I have been together for almost three years now,and well, the list of things to try sexually keeps growing shorter and shorter.Regular sex,mutual masturbation,oral,anal,threesome w/ another girl,foursome w/ another girl and guy...So whats left? I can think of a few things such as toys and lingerie to spice things up a little more when what we are currently doing gets old.But was wanting to know other peoples suggestions on things to try in the future sexually.

Pariahprose
 
Any fetishes? Tying up, role-playing, toys as you said, that sorta thing...doing it outside/in more risky places, filming it...list goes on :)
 
eventually there will be a lack of new things unless you get more extreme. thats life. sex with the same person will eventually be familiar. maybe you should go on dates to make it seem new. go on holiday's together? new place new setting can make old things seem new.

i'm not advocating drug abuse but for me smoking weed keeps sex forever fresh simply by enhancing the sensory and increasing the horny.
 
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I dunno, smoking weed does the opposite for me, and while yes, I'm not the biggest fan of weed, Ms.G is a HUGE fan of weed and she gets even less sexual from it than I do...like she does not even want to be to touched/kissed, and she is otherwise hypersexual. So your mileage may vary.

I don't really think one needs to keep finding new things to do. I mean, it's fun and all, but once you've you found things you really like, it's not hard to keep on enjoying them. I don't need to keep trying every new RC that comes out, I'm pretty damn content with just regular old amphetamine. You know what I mean?
 
Maybe you guys should just take a break from sex so when you go back to it--it'll be fresh! My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we've only done oral and vaginal intercourse. We're not at all bored! Lol. So maybe you should just slow down and enjoy it?
 
I've got some cuffs now too, but I find the rope to be more versatile. I'm still learning, but rope play can be an art so it doesn't get old fast like some other bedroom play.
 
I dunno, I'm probably just biased cause I'm a professional with cuffs (in the literal meaning of that.) So I'm far more familiar with them and comfortable with them.

Also, more access to body and quicker to re-position the subject. (which usually happens to be me.)

What else is good for bedroom spice... hmm..have you guys considered going to a lifestyle club? It's a lot of fun.
 
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