I will never understand the male species lol I swear.

Well I've been sort-of talking to four different guys lately, since I broke it off with ***. And one of them I was starting to develop legitimate feelings for, I mean, we had a really good connection. We'd hang out for hours... I'm talking all day... and before we knew it would be like 1 am and we wouldn't even realize it. Out of all of them, he's the one I definitely feel the most connected to both mentally and as far as physical attraction goes. And he always gives me a ton of compliments, is really flattering, he just acts like... a gentleman. I mean, he was already cooking for me only a few days after I met him. We text every day. When we hang out, time just flies by and there's never a dull moment.

So I'd say things seemed to be going down the right path, if you ask me. Except now he's distancing himself, and I truly cannot understand why.

We didn't have sex. We didn't even kiss. I haven't kissed or slept with ANY of the guys I'm talking to, so it just makes no sense for him to do that if we have a good connection.

Anyway. Just my two cents. Guys are strange creatures. :/

 

A lot of guys don't get subtlety. Maybe he thinks that you're not interested, so he's trying to back off so that he doesn't get hurt? Some people, both men and women, start to get a bit freaked out when they realize that they're into someone, so they feel the need to run away a bit. I don't really understand that, but that's a people thing, not just a man thing.

If you're wondering what's up, just ask him. Communication is critical; assume nothing, and don't rely on hints.