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I want to fuck my wife's friend

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HCandKROD

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My wife has a friend she used to work with. The friend moved to San Francisco. I always found her attractive and she turned me on. My wife and I have had several threesomes with different friends but not this one in California. I recently started to write the friend on Facebook. The conversations have turned quite sexual. I travel a lot and San Francisco is on the agenda soon. I don't think my wife would be too jealous if I had sex with her but dammit I can't stop thinking about her. When I go to California should I and not tell or have sex with her and tell my wife? My wife wants to have a threesome with her but I want her all to myself the first time. I'm confused. What would you do?
 
HCandKROD said:
My wife has a friend she used to work with. The friend moved to San Francisco. I always found her attractive and she turned me on. My wife and I have had several threesomes with different friends but not this one in California. I recently started to write the friend on Facebook. The conversations have turned quite sexual. I travel a lot and San Francisco is on the agenda soon. I don't think my wife would be too jealous if I had sex with her but dammit I can't stop thinking about her. When I go to California should I and not tell or have sex with her and tell my wife? My wife wants to have a threesome with her but I want her all to myself the first time. I'm confused. What would you do?
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Why don't you think she'll be mad and/or jealous?
 
Yep, I agree with the first two posts. Just talk to her first and if you guys are that open when it comes to sex it should be fine with your wife.
 
Definitely talk to her first. You have a good relationship with your wife, I presume? so be open and tell her what's going on. Keep in mind that she may feel offended that you don't want her involved, I can see why she would feel offended. Unless your relationship is completely open. I'd still say a threesome might be the best. If you're so attracted to this woman, wouldn't it be sexy to see the two of them together too?

It seems like you have a pretty good relationship with your wife. Not that I mean to compare you to society norms, but how many people are in good relationships who still have threesomes, etc.? Not that many, really. So you seem to already be very open and understanding. Talking it through with her is really the best idea.
 
Yeah, my wife knows that I'm attracted to this woman. I'd like to have a threesome but I want this woman all alone the first time. I also realize that what goes on in the mind usually doesn't measure up in real life. I just don't want to do anything that will hurt my wife's feelings cause she is more important than sex. But, damn!! I can't get this woman out of my mind and I feel kind of guilty when my wife and I have sex and all I'm thinking about is the other woman. I'm just conflicted.
 
Yeah, I want to have sex with this one guy, and my boyfriend is very open about things in general and probably wouldn't care. But my bf is more important to me than this guy I've had a crush on for, like, two years aha. If he was up for a threesome, it'd be awesome, but I don't think he is. Also, my bf knows I have a huge crush on this guy. But I'm not going to just go and have sex with this guy, I would have to discuss it all with my bf first because he is the most important person to me. Maybe he'd be okay with me sleeping with this guy, we'll see how things progress, but I would not do anything without talking to my bf first.
 
Yes talk with your wife.
If she is cool with it, then set up something with the "friend" and yourself.
And your wife can watch you two go at it. Sounds like a win win.
Hell then after you two are finished then go for round two and have a threesome. %)
 
So you are seriously considering putting your sexual pleasure before your relationship with your wife, who by all accounts, meets most of your needs, and even does 3somes, so you can have your moment of glory with her friend?
I would just leave your marriage and let her find someone more deserving.
 
Having a threesome and just banging this chic by yourself are two very different things... hah. I've had many girlfriends who were okay with threesomes but that was the only way. Me just going out and having sex with somebody else was still considered cheating and not cool.

I've also had open relationships where certain girls didn't care at all what I did, but most women do not want their boyfriend/husband fucking anybody else. Like I said, threesomes though are that middle ground.

So if your wife expressed an interest in that.. then just go that route and get it out of your system. I mean, sure go ahead and ask your wife if she'd be okay with you having sex with this chic by yourself but... might not end well. Hah.
 
bunnymunro said:
So you are seriously considering putting your sexual pleasure before your relationship with your wife, who by all accounts, meets most of your needs, and even does 3somes, so you can have your moment of glory with her friend?
I would just leave your marriage and let her find someone more deserving.
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Did you not read my above post? Please read before judgment please.
 
llama112 said:
Yeah, I want to have sex with this one guy, and my boyfriend is very open about things in general and probably wouldn't care. But my bf is more important to me than this guy I've had a crush on for, like, two years aha. If he was up for a threesome, it'd be awesome, but I don't think he is. Also, my bf knows I have a huge crush on this guy. But I'm not going to just go and have sex with this guy, I would have to discuss it all with my bf first because he is the most important person to me. Maybe he'd be okay with me sleeping with this guy, we'll see how things progress, but I would not do anything without talking to my bf first.
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llama112 I think that is hot as hell!!! If I were your bf I would say go for it. Then when you get back I'd wanna hear details. That would make for some hot, hot sex for me. Talk to your bf about it.
 
HCandKROD said:
llama112 I think that is hot as hell!!! If I were your bf I would say go for it. Then when you get back I'd wanna hear details. That would make for some hot, hot sex for me. Talk to your bf about it.
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Well, you're not my bf, that is a topic between me and him. There are girls I'm sure he'd like to have sex with too and I probably wouldn't want him to. So I'm not going to have sex with some guy I have a crush on. I'm going to keep it as a crush. That's that. My bf is really open minded too, but still, that's that.

Mr.Scagnattie said:
Eck, not me, man. The thought of my girlfriend fucking somebody else makes me wanna puke.
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Many people think like this and I understand it completely. While many (most??) people have fantasies, you need to know the difference between fantasy and a reality.
 
Mr.Scagnattie said:
Yeah, my girlfriend brought up the idea of having a threesome. But, like I said.. that is the exception. She would be far from okay with me just having sex with somebody else by myself.
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Right on. My bf and I both want a threesome but I don't want him having sex with someone else.
 
Venrak said:
Talk to her.

First.
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Yeah.
Having a threesome with her doesn't sound like the worst of compromises and from what you've said I'd be surprised if your wife wasn't upset at you just having sex with this woman on your own. Definitely talk to her first.
 
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