My boyfriend and I have been together a year, and we recently moved in together. Before we moved in together, we had CRAZY AWESOME sex every time we saw one another. Sometimes he would just randomly take me out of nowhere like he couldn't go another second without me.
I know things calm down the longer you stay together, but since he's moved in her never initiates sex. he has maybe 3 times (it's been 3 months since he moved in) and that's not cutting it for me!
He says it's the zoloft that he was prescribed a year ago when his father died. My question... can I ask that he go to the doctor and get a change of meds, or possibly stop taking them? I don't want to ask him to stop taking them of course, that would be wrong... but I feel so unwanted. How do I approach this conversation with him without making him feel bad? I don't know how to say "why don't you want to fuck me anymore???" or to say "well stop taking your medicine, because having sex with me is more important."
We also both take lortabs frequently, so that might not be helping :/
I love him, and he loves me and we had a very healthy sex life, but it's just dead now. It makes me feel unwanted and unattractive. How to I approach this with him without hurting his feelings or making him feel less of a man?
I know things calm down the longer you stay together, but since he's moved in her never initiates sex. he has maybe 3 times (it's been 3 months since he moved in) and that's not cutting it for me!
He says it's the zoloft that he was prescribed a year ago when his father died. My question... can I ask that he go to the doctor and get a change of meds, or possibly stop taking them? I don't want to ask him to stop taking them of course, that would be wrong... but I feel so unwanted. How do I approach this conversation with him without making him feel bad? I don't know how to say "why don't you want to fuck me anymore???" or to say "well stop taking your medicine, because having sex with me is more important."
We also both take lortabs frequently, so that might not be helping :/
I love him, and he loves me and we had a very healthy sex life, but it's just dead now. It makes me feel unwanted and unattractive. How to I approach this with him without hurting his feelings or making him feel less of a man?