I'm a guy and was wondering is it too much to expect sex everyday from your S.O.?
For me, it's fun, I enjoy it, I don't see anything negative with it? It's not like a drug or something that causes some negativity. It's enjoyable, it's exercise and it brings you and your partner closer together.
In all my past relationships and my current one, whenever my partner says No to sex, I build resentment towards her.
I feel as though I'm supposed to be a good faithful boyfriend but yet you're denying me sex? What am I supposed to do? Cheat, masturbate, do nothing and be sad? Well for those 3 options, I can be single!
There has been the very odd occasion in my life where my partner has wanted sex and I have not (from memory because I was exhausted from work), but she really wanted it so I just rolled over and she went on top and got what she wanted. I think I was actually asleep half the time but I didn't have any problems with this.
Now I understand there may be certain times when sex would just not be on the cards....such as your pet dog dying, a relative dying, you just lost your job or some other type of disaster. I understand this!
But, tired, headache, don't feel like it, in my opinion I don't think are valid reasons in an exclusive relationship. I think the expectation of your partner to be faithful has to be reciprocated with a willingness to put out when your partner wants. What do you guys think?
For me, it's fun, I enjoy it, I don't see anything negative with it? It's not like a drug or something that causes some negativity. It's enjoyable, it's exercise and it brings you and your partner closer together.
In all my past relationships and my current one, whenever my partner says No to sex, I build resentment towards her.
I feel as though I'm supposed to be a good faithful boyfriend but yet you're denying me sex? What am I supposed to do? Cheat, masturbate, do nothing and be sad? Well for those 3 options, I can be single!
There has been the very odd occasion in my life where my partner has wanted sex and I have not (from memory because I was exhausted from work), but she really wanted it so I just rolled over and she went on top and got what she wanted. I think I was actually asleep half the time but I didn't have any problems with this.
Now I understand there may be certain times when sex would just not be on the cards....such as your pet dog dying, a relative dying, you just lost your job or some other type of disaster. I understand this!
But, tired, headache, don't feel like it, in my opinion I don't think are valid reasons in an exclusive relationship. I think the expectation of your partner to be faithful has to be reciprocated with a willingness to put out when your partner wants. What do you guys think?