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I really dont understand this site please help

kaylee.wise

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I dont get this site i know that you can ask questions and get some advice but do you not always get replies? i read alot but its not helping me and i dont know if im doing this right. How do i save my post or replies that i wrote? And can i post anywhere? But the most important thing i want to know is that is this a safe website where i can say anything about myself or say what i do? Is this all anonymous? Or can it get you into trouble?
I would appreciate some help please because i do need alot of help with my problems and i cant figure how to work this cite.?????
 
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Using the search engine normally gets you nice results, quicker than waiting for a response. As well the discussion has already taken its course over time, and starting a new thread may not work out as intended if you don't place it in the right sub forum, etc.

Above all else, starting a new thread in homeless threads is a good idea. The staff in charge will take care of you. :)

Welcome to Bluelight!
 
Welcome!!! :)

You might be interested in signing up for the NMI Adoption Program. This allows you to pick a "parent" or let fate take it's course and simply ask to be adopted if you do not find that any one volunteer "speaks to you".
We have many great volunteers to help you acclimate to the site.

Also,the BLUA,FAQs and the Greenlighter's Guide are all very useful tools in learning how the site works. There are links to all 3 of these in my signature below.

Feel free to post here or send ANY staff member a PM if you have questions. We are here to help! <3

Much peace and love......................skillz =D
 
Thankyouu i will look into that becasue i really like this site and it can help me out with so many things.
How do i know who the staff member is? or who is in charge?
 
kaylee, just one thing to note that I don't think anyone has mentioned yet: This website is 100% public, and you are only as anonymous as you make yourself. Everything you post on here can be read by anyone at all, including police and other authorities. So just make sure you don't post anything that will incriminate you or anyone you know. And if you're worried that someone you know in your personal life might come across something you've said on here, it's best to just be a bit discrete with the things you say. Other than that, feel free to post whatever you like!

Also, staff members have the title "Moderator" or "Senior Moderator" under their username, and the head honchos are the "Administrators". As skillz~4~thrillz said, if you need any help please feel free to send a private message to any of us moderators any time! :)
 
^GREAT point,n3o!!!
Open,honest and knowledgeable discussion is encouraged! However,keeping details that pertain to you as we say "IRL" (in real life) such as specifics about where you live,places you frequent and other details that may be more of a danger to you than they are helpful. Keeping yourself anonymous benefits you,insomuch as it allows you to discuss things in your life more freely. You also do not open yourself up to incrimination of ANY kind. Just to reiterate what n3o said, Anonymity is always your friend! :)

Just make sure you read each forum's individual guidelines to give you more of a sense of which forums allow or prevent any subject matter that you may want to discuss. As always,if you have any question,the staff is here to help! <3

Much peace and love.................skillz <3
 
Oh i didnt know that thankyouu for letting me know, how do you make yourself anonymous? So i can use that then,
 
^just hit the Edit button in the post you wish to delete or edit. Once you enter the edit mode,you will see the option to delete your post.

much peace and love...............skillz =D
 
Thank You (: i really like and enjoy this site its bringing me good adivce from good people and i love that.
 
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