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I Love Having Sex but..........

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dirtyrogers

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I love having sex. I met this lady December, 2010. During our conversations she would tell me she likes it in the shower, sometimes late at night and in the morning. Then she sent me a picture of her pussy. When we first met she put on some lingerie. She gave me head and rode my dick like a mad Russian. Then she nutted all over me. I was shocked she went down and sucked it like a pro but I never nutted. When she nutted all over me I was amazed and loved it because she nutted. Boy her pussy feels so good.
But my point is that she would say things like her ex use to make her fuck him everyday, and what did I think about a threesome with her, I and another woman. She also said that I would have to take the pussy. So I'm confused now because every since we spoke of getting married and I have said that I didn't want to do a threesome out of fear that she just wanted to do it to fuck other men, it seems as if she doesn't want to have sex as much any more. She claims that's work but she was working just as much and as hard when we first met. Plus I admit to banging that ass every chance I got. Sometimes three to four times a day. Now we are down to once or twice a week. Maybe three times a month. She claims when we get married it'll pick up. I just can't see how she can turn it on and off like that. Any suggestions, opinions or comments. I'm open.:!
 
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Well the marriage stereotypes indicate you will get less sex when married.. Jokes aside it's quite common for the sexual part of a relationship to cool down after a while in a relationship I'm not saying it should be like this, but often this is the way it goes after a while
 
Personally, there are times I can get off on a woman talking dirty, like you've described, but my woman regularly running around saying, "you need to take the pussy", is a bit of a turn-off to me. Sort of like a woman sounding like a "sailor". It's not attractive. There's a time and a place for that talk and she sounds or sounded out of control. It sure doesn't sound like she's stable enough for marriage. Those huge swings in desire seems contrived and not genuine. Good Luck though!
 
i dont know dude

are u SURE 100% u are ready to marry this girl. if u had an accident and were on a feeding tube would she wipe your ass for the next 50 years?

the girl sounds like a hoor man. when u want to fuck, fuck her. let her know ur ready WHENEVER she even THINKS she wants it. maybe she wants to see some excitement out of you. lots of girls will be freaky at first like that to get their hooks in you. and your about to marry her...

think
 
Another perspective- have you slowed down or stopped the foreplay? And I don't mean just the foreplay right before sex, I mean the random kissing, touching and talk that happens throughout the day when you first get with with someone. Some women, like me personally, really need that. There's no bigger turn off than a man who's only sexual when he wants things to lead directly to sex, or a man who just grabs at the snatch or thinks nipples are like on/off switches. Put some effort into keeping things fresh and hot.
 
She sounds like the type of women that has a high sex drive and is turned on by more adventurous sex and/or a a more dominant partner. Maybe your reserved reactions to the desires she's expressed or your sexual personality being too timid has turned her off a little.

Try being more forceful and see if the situation changes. Ball gag her and then choke her with your belt or something.
 
i have no fucking clue what the original post says

this is like hitman420 troll guy of sex.
 
I don't get it, you don't want a threesome cos you think it's an excuse for her to get pounded by other guys but the third participants a lady? If she's comfortable with it I don't see why not, as long as it's mutually understood that'll be the furthest it goes with other people. Shit, it might get her juices flowing again, if what GenericMind said holds true.
Also, I orgasmed just a smidgen at your uh, colourful depictions of your sex life with her. Sounds like a description for a Fucktube video if truth be told.
 
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