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stardust.hero said:
I want a Snowshoe Siamese cat/mix so bad :3.
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That would be so cute ^_^

I've always wanted a Fennec fox

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I have a few things I need to get done today. I've got an interview with an old boss and I want to get to the dr before then to get refered to a psychiatrist for my anxiety and I need to get a blood test also. I knew I shouldn't have used ice over the weekend I still feel very much in a daze. Blah.
 
My ex's best friend is starting to get with somebody who lives at my SLE - my ex and I were trying to get them together for months because they are perfect for each other. So it's great, I'm really happy for them. Except I was just over in the main house watching the game with everyone and they showed up, and hanging out with her for the last half hour really brought me down making me think of good times over the last couple months. Happy memories attached to painful feelings, if ya know what I mean. I just left and came back to my apartment across the street cause it was too much. I totally thought i was passed the emotional part for the last few days. But i guess maybe that was just because I removed all the reminders of her that I had laying around a few days ago and it was an effective thing to do but yeah, i dunno.

I'll be fine, and I am making a LOT of progress with moving on as well as just a TON of progress in terms of working on myself, my recovery and my spirituality over the last couple weeks. Basically just wanted to get this out of my head somewhere. I know there isn't much to be done about it at this point other then to just keep doing my own thing and moving forward.
 
^it will take some time to get over the feelings completely, been there many times and when you think you are strong enough there will be days when you will remember something about that person and make you miss them even more. Like what has happened to most of us relationship wise you will get over it with time. I will be good :)
 
Sorry guys I've been busy with family stuff like my mods know, but...guess what?? He's now my "boyfriend" =D
 
Thanks Maya, I know it's just a matter of time. I've been doing a lot of different things to work through it as well which have been helping tremendously. The majority of the day decently I'm not feeling too bad about it - Just every so often something triggers a memory, like you said. It may be a sad feeling in response to the memory, but all happy memories that I wouldn't trade for anything. :)

Ad lib that's AWESOME! Congrats I really hope things keep going well for ya!
 
ad lib said:
Sorry guys I've been busy with family stuff like my mods know, but...guess what?? He's now my "boyfriend" =D
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congrats Addy!!!!!! yay!!!!!!!!!! wohoo!!!

caseface99 said:
Thanks Maya, I know it's just a matter of time. I've been doing a lot of different things to work through it as well which have been helping tremendously. The majority of the day decently I'm not feeling too bad about it - Just every so often something triggers a memory, like you said. It may be a sad feeling in response to the memory, but all happy memories that I wouldn't trade for anything. :)

Ad lib that's AWESOME! Congrats I really hope things keep going well for ya!
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When I was with my 4 year bf we broke up many times and it took me some time to get over it. It took me months so I completely understand hun. It's the attachment we have had with that person and the great memories that makes it so hard to deal with but the pain will definitely pass and you will find a new love.
 
^^ I know. I'm not one of those guys whose stuck on the idea of there only being one girl in the world for me. I'm quite certain I will find another with time. Though I realized I didn't know what love felt like until this last relationship because well, I was sober and able to physically feel the feelings for the first time - So my standards have gone up drastically. Not my standards in terms of appearance necessarily, but my standards in how connected I feel to any perspective females. Now That I have felt the true feeling of love, I don't ever want to settle for anything less again. :)
 
caseface99 said:
My ex's best friend is starting to get with somebody who lives at my SLE - my ex and I were trying to get them together for months because they are perfect for each other. So it's great, I'm really happy for them. Except I was just over in the main house watching the game with everyone and they showed up, and hanging out with her for the last half hour really brought me down making me think of good times over the last couple months. Happy memories attached to painful feelings, if ya know what I mean. I just left and came back to my apartment across the street cause it was too much. I totally thought i was passed the emotional part for the last few days. But i guess maybe that was just because I removed all the reminders of her that I had laying around a few days ago and it was an effective thing to do but yeah, i dunno.

I'll be fine, and I am making a LOT of progress with moving on as well as just a TON of progress in terms of working on myself, my recovery and my spirituality over the last couple weeks. Basically just wanted to get this out of my head somewhere. I know there isn't much to be done about it at this point other then to just keep doing my own thing and moving forward.
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Sorry that this is happening to you, case. It is hard, like others have said but it will get easier in time. I know that's hard to hear right now but it's true. I took me two years to get over my ex but I am now n things are better.

Ab - that's sce news. I'm really happy for you.

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Everyday I'm presented with more supporting facts on why I love and am with my boyfriend. We're going to look at an inexpensive 2nd-hand couch set for our spare/game room. The set looks nice in the pictures but I'm not sure how it will be once we get up close. I don't want to insult the seller so I told my boyfriend if I don't like it I'm going to say "I don't think it's going to fit" (even though I know the dimensions), and I told him to say if he likes it and really wants it "Yes I think it will fit". There's nothing greater than being with someone you have great communication skills with ;). And secret codes. :sus:
 
Stardust that's good thinking. I wouldn't have thought of that. It stops any conflict n you go away feeling ok. It's lovely that you have someone who you can have good communications with I agree. I'm happy for you and if it doesn't work out with this couch you'll find another xxxx
 
All i want to do is leave this life behind, but the only way of coping i can see/understand digs the hole deeper. :(

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I just spend a grueling 90 minutes filling out an online application for Medicaid. I had to keep going over a missing answer then it timed me out because I took too long and had to start all over again. *we need a face-palm smiley* I have my intake appointment tomorrow at the mental health center so hope that goes well.
 
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I just spend a grueling 90 minutes filling out an online application for Medicaid. I had to keep going over a missing answer then it timed me out because I took too long and had to start all over again. *we need a face-palm smiley* I have my intake appointment tomorrow at the mental health center so hope that goes well.
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Gah that's so frustrating :( I hope your appointment goes well tomorrow!
 
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