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caseface99 said:
^^ That's what it'd be for me without exaggerating. I grind the fuck out of my teeth sometimes while sleep, allegedly. (I don't ever notice it.. females do apparently lol.)

I need to get a mouth guard for fucking sure :p Haven't found one that isn't annoying as fuck to try and sleep with though. I need something as small as those invisalign things. A regular mouth guard is too much i practically choke on them...
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Ooh i grind my teeth bad!!
 
^^^Yeah apparently it's REALLY bad sometimes. Problem is I don't do it every night, and as of 9 months ago I only had a girl in my bed a few days a week and as of a month ago I'm sleeping solo for the foreseeable future - so no way for me to know how bad I've been doing it lately. I really should start looking into something I can wear at night that won't bother me - because I don't want to grind my shit down till they fall out.
 
I grind mine so bad my gums started to recede and I need surgery for it. A mouth guard will save you!!
 
ad lib said:
I grind mine so bad my gums started to recede and I need surgery for it. A mouth guard will save you!!
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Holy shit... You may have just scared me into willingness to wear the damn thing while sleeping !!! I'm at the point where I can tell just by feeling around with my tongue that I've worn them down quite a bit over the years. That should have been enough to conivnce me haha... But being an addict and particularly good at ignoring horrible things going on in my life, I just don't think about it. lol.

But now that it's come up and I am thinking about it, I think I might go get whatever mouth guard i can find regardless of how annoying it is. I'll look for a better one but at least get something to save my teeth in the mean time.
 
Haha yes it's totally worth it case! I'm only 22 so it can happen when you're young. I have to use sensitive tooth paste and whenever I eat something "sensitive" it stings so bad. My top foods are chocolate, hard candy, hot drinks, and foods that are very juicy/watery (ex watermelon). A lot of it stems from anxiety I think. I find myself doing it during the day too and have to make a conscious effort not to because it gives me migraines and jaw pain too.

/rant

So...tomorrow I have work off and the new guy I'm seeing does too. We're going to spend the day together. In the late morning I have a doctor appointment that he's coming with me to (finally getting contacts!) then we have the whole day together. He said he wants me to pick something to do. I don't know what to do! It's cold outside, and the northeast is pretty boring. He likes science and history so I was thinking a museum, but now I don't know anymore. Suggestions??? =D
 
Ace, addy! How about going for a coffee n taking it from there? Some of the best times are when things are not planned. Mesuim sounds good. How about going to the cinema n watching a film? You have drive in cinemas over there, right? You could watch a good film n get pop corm... Only down sound on watching a film is there isn't
Much time for conversation as you're watching the film. But yeah my suggestion is coffee n take it from there....

Ugh I have sensitive teeth; hurts to eat ice cream unless its in a cornet where I can lick it, chocolate or basically anything extremely hot or cold. That sucks about having to have surgery.

Evey xxxx
 
Museum of Science! Or if he's into geography too you can take him to the Mapparium, it's pretty neat!
 
Thanks ladies!!

We do have drive in theaters but they're all closed now because of the snow. Definitely a summer date though, I'll keep that in mind!

I think I'm gonna go with your suggestion spork and do the science museum :D yayayay
 
Ahhhh sorry didn't know you had snow there. Please let us know how it goes xxxx

ad lib said:
So...tomorrow I have work off and the new guy I'm seeing does too. We're going to spend the day together. In the late morning I have a doctor appointment that he's coming with me to (finally getting contacts!) then we have the whole day together. He said he wants me to pick something to do. I don't know what to do! It's cold outside, and the northeast is pretty boring. He likes science and history so I was thinking a museum, but now I don't know anymore. Suggestions??? =D
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Contacts ?????
 
Eveleivibe said:
Ahhhh sorry didn't know you had snow there. Please let us know how it goes xxxx

Contacts ?????
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I will! =D

And yes..to replace my glasses. It probably has a different name in the UK but I'm not sure what it is :(
 
Ah contact lenses. We get those from the optician over here that's why I was confused. Didn't know you got them from the actual doctor in the US xxxx

Does anyone know how mrflowers is doing is? I haven't seen him in a while n whenever I ask no one seems to answer. He seemed to be having a tough time before i hope he's ok. Kinda get worried when I haven't seen a reg in a while xxxx
 
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mrflowers my son is banned for a while but he's ok if anyone wants to know about him from time to time send me a message and i'll let you know. but i am worried about him he is in a bad mental state mostly in his drug addiction he's more fiendish than i've ever seen him but i doubt he will off him self or anything like that i appreciate that people here care about him
 
^ I would consider inpatient therapy , it'll provide more help than BL and it's the best course of action you can take as a parent.
 
hes done rehab and psych wards and came out in a worse mental state than when he entered i'm afraid of asking him to do that again and now that he's 24 it's not as easy to make him enter something like that anyway it'd more be up to him
 
yeah i know that but i don't think he's a danger to himself and certainly not anyone else i mean he injects drugs which is dangerous but even if they would 50 50 him over that i don't think that would be the best thing for him i'm just concerned about how much he craves the drugs as of late. it'd be nice if he would keep his tolerance low and make his meds last cause when he's in wds he becomes desperate and i don't want him to end up in jail or prison because he "needed" pills and i'm worried about him blacking out on xanax cause he is a different person when he does says and does shit he never would for example about a week ago he black out broke into my safe just to take a bunch of my xanax and i'm having the worst back pain of my life so he really put me in a bad spot and he's very regretful of what he did and i'm not sure if he would do something like get in a fight and stab someone instead of just fighting because he was blacked out and he doesn't need to be in prison for life feeling regretful for what he did to the other person's family and even worse "at least in his eyes" what he did to his own family
 
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I've relised I'm not nearly as depressed as I was a month or two ago. I thank the people here for support and keeping me on track when I was thinking about doing things I would only regret! :)
 
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