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I fell for an Escort, what should I do?

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evo4ever

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Hello all.

This might be a long story so bare with me...

Two weeks ago I invited an Escort to my house for the first time in my life, she was good looking and had a nice personality and I paid her to stay for only 3 hours, we were intimate and had sex. A week later I invited her to my house again for 4 hours but this time we were so into each other she stayed all night without any extra money and I asked her out on a date and she accepted and she invited me to her house (as a date not a client) on the Wednesday. When she went home at 7am we continued to text each other saying that she couldn't wait to see me again and that she'll have to meet my mum. Bare in mind guys we mutually developed feelings for each other. As the days go on she starts to become more and more distant complaining that shes not well which is actually the truth btw and she tells me not to come to hers on the Wednesday cos shes not well enough and shes lost her voice so no fone calls. We rearrange for me to go to hers next Wednesday (as dates btw) and she agrees, but again she becoming even more distant to a point where shes not returning my text messages. Whats going on with this girl guys? I dont want to keep texting her or call her as I don't want to come across as desperate or creepy, why would she agree to stay at my house all night without any extra money, say she likes me and agrees to date me and then be like this? Help appreciated!

EDIT: She even tells me her real name, and sends me pics of her kids via whatsapp, all kinds of personal info which is a big no no for an Escort.

I need to talk about this to someone like my family or friends cos its really tearing me up but its too embarrassing cos shes an Escort.
 
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It seems like you already know the likely outcome and are hoping for something else.

Sucks to be lonely, but sucks even more to be jerked around. Dont get your feelings involved with prostitutes; it never ends well. I would recommend you completely stop seeing her and talking to her.
 
RedRum OG said:
It seems like you already know the likely outcome and are hoping for something else.

Sucks to be lonely, but sucks even more to be jerked around. Dont get your feelings involved with prostitutes; it never ends well. I would recommend you completely stop seeing her and talking to her.
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Yeah it really hurts cos she played with my emotions and let me get close to her! I mean WTF!! And it actually felt mutual, its a fucked up situation!
 
Maybe it felt good for her for a brief time to be in a somewhat normal situation and then she realized she's an escort and can't really stop for a boyfriend. Sad either way. I can imagine it's lonely only having intimate contact with multiple people most of whom you probably don't like.
 
Sky God said:
Maybe it felt good for her for a brief time to be in a somewhat normal situation and then she realized she's an escort and can't really stop for a boyfriend. Sad either way. I can imagine it's lonely only having intimate contact with multiple people most of whom you probably don't like.
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This sounds most likely. She got caught up in the feels but once she had time to logically think over the situation maybe felt like it wouldn’t work.

OP are you texting/calling her too much? You could be showing too much interest too soon which is a turn off for any woman I’ve met escort or not.

-GC
 
G_Chem said:
This sounds most likely. She got caught up in the feels but once she had time to logically think over the situation maybe felt like it wouldn’t work.

OP are you texting/calling her too much? You could be showing too much interest too soon which is a turn off for any woman I’ve met escort or not.

-GC
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No I stopped texting her when she never replied to my last text, but it wasnt excessive while we were texting. I havnt heard from her since Wednesday and we've got a planned meeting at hers this Wednesday which I've got a feeling aint gonna happen, should I leave it at that and move on or should I text her come Wednesday?
 
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I’d personally wait til Weds, then early on that day hit her up and ask your still on for that night. If she doesn’t get back or says no I’d chalk it up as a good memory.

-GC
 
Maybe call her a couple hours before you're supposed to hang out. She might have other shit going on in her life. I wouldn't take it personally
 
I wouldn't. If you have feelings and you do they will just get stronger and you could end up hurt. Or she may realize she is still loveable and get out of the business. I do commend you for not being judgy , to many people judge a woman sex worker without knowing anything about them. I look at it as not my business to tell someone what they can do to their bodies. Sorry i can't give a definitive answer, it's something you have to weigh the pro's and con's on. I just hope you don't get hurt
 
Sky God said:
I wouldn't. If you have feelings and you do they will just get stronger and you could end up hurt. Or she may realize she is still loveable and get out of the business. I do commend you for not being judgy , to many people judge a woman sex worker without knowing anything about them. I look at it as not my business to tell someone what they can do to their bodies. Sorry i can't give a definitive answer, it's something you have to weigh the pro's and con's on. I just hope you don't get hurt
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Yeah I havent judged her in any way, I actually feel sorry for her cos shes actually a lovely girl. I might send her a text on Wednesday.
 
evo4ever said:
Yeah I havent judged her in any way, I actually feel sorry for her cos shes actually a lovely girl. I might send her a text on Wednesday.
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I always feel sad when i see an escort. A few do it because they enjoy it i'm sure. I knew one years ago that was a high priced escort and would go to functions with rich men and usually some just wanted a beautiful girl on their arm. She never had sex with someone she wasn't attracted to. She bought a condo by age 25 and put herself through college ( it happens after all lol) then quit. But the majority do it either to support a drug habit , had no other option to put food on the table , pushed to do it by a boyfriend, low self worth, trafficked etc... No little girl wants to grow up to be a hooker so i'm always saddened when i see one, specifically the ones on the street . Just be careful with your own heart and i hope it goes the way you want it to.
 
evo4ever said:
Yeah it really hurts cos she played with my emotions and let me get close to her! I mean WTF!! And it actually felt mutual, its a fucked up situation!
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You can't blame her for this entirely.

Maybe she does like you and wants to hang out but not in a relationship?

She is an escort, this is her job. Its possible it was just convenient to stay over, maybe she should have left on her end time

Shes pushing you away because you're too clingy most likely. You didn't go shopping for a gf, she isn't your gf , she really owes you nothing.
 
Sky God said:
I always feel sad when i see an escort. A few do it because they enjoy it i'm sure. I knew one years ago that was a high priced escort and would go to functions with rich men and usually some just wanted a beautiful girl on their arm. She never had sex with someone she wasn't attracted to. She bought a condo by age 25 and put herself through college ( it happens after all lol) then quit. But the majority do it either to support a drug habit , had no other option to put food on the table , pushed to do it by a boyfriend, low self worth, trafficked etc... No little girl wants to grow up to be a hooker so i'm always saddened when i see one, specifically the ones on the street . Just be careful with your own heart and i hope it goes the way you want it to.
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She does it to support her two kids theres no drugs involved and if u seen her u would not think she was a typical prostitute, more like a typical and expensive "high-class escort", shes also got a degree which does make me think why shes not using it!
 
evo4ever said:
She does it to support her two kids theres no drugs involved and if u seen her u would not think she was a typical prostitute, more like a typical and expensive "high-class escort", shes also got a degree which does make me think why shes not using it!
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Its none of your buisness, despite the lady being friendly and telling you things about herself.

If she was using her degree and could earn what she does escorting then you wouldn't have met her.

Yeah, far too clingy, its pretty obv why she is giving you the cold shoulder.

Take the hints she is dropping, youre a safe client but just that, a client.
 
evo4ever said:
She does it to support her two kids theres no drugs involved and if u seen her u would not think she was a typical prostitute, more like a typical and expensive "high-class escort", shes also got a degree which does make me think why shes not using it!
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Its none of your buisness, despite the lady being friendly and telling you things about herself.

If she was using her degree and could earn what she does escorting then you wouldn't have met her.

Yeah, far too clingy, its pretty obv why she is giving you the cold shoulder.

Take the hints she is dropping, youre a safe client but just that, a client.
 
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