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I cum way too fast

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FUSIONZ said:
Sometimes I can just go for an hour and not cum, but then I have to spit on her back so she thinks I went....
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Y'know, for the nights where I can't make it happen due to drugs... this is really, really interesting advice. I'll have to take note; if I get caught, though, the credit goes to you :D

~ vaya
 
or maybe just work with your situation, even if you do bust way too fast, just go again and keep it up strong.
 
^ what he said - ya can't ENJOY having a wank in a minute...it needs a build up, otherwise it's JUST a release of pent up sexual tension.

untaMe said:
kegels http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html
and also do some researching of your own. when you exercise your pc muscles and learn to better control them you will learn to better control yourself from ejaculating prematurely.

good luck
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This can help yeah, but I think everything should go before trying this one - this won't work by itself...also where's the fun in having to concentrate on squeezing your PC muscles while trying to have a good fuck? none - exactly.
 
Don't feel like a chump if you don't last 30 minutes, all those porn films you've seen are fake, ya know? Most guys are lucky to last a good 5 minutes, it's simply natural to come quickly. The numbing agents may help, and while it's not a great idea to get into opiates...they will certainly make you last at least 15-30 minutes...if you can come at all.
 
I had a B/F who had the same problem. After some looking into to it we found that... now listen up... relaxing your ass cheeks while you have sex is the #1 surefire/non substance enhanced way to last.


He went from lasting maybe 2-3 mins to being able to go 20-30
= (any more than that isn't the most fun just FYI - all the pre-stuff is what we like the most).

Anyways, it turns out that it is actually hard (pun intended) for a guy to release without his ass clinched.
 
BoulderBob said:
Don't feel like a chump if you don't last 30 minutes, all those porn films you've seen are fake, ya know? Most guys are lucky to last a good 5 minutes, it's simply natural to come quickly. The numbing agents may help, and while it's not a great idea to get into opiates...they will certainly make you last at least 15-30 minutes...if you can come at all.
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Yeh very true. Its evolutionarily advantageous because over the ages before civilization in the wild savanna if it took you an hour to get off in your mate you would have a much higher chance of either getting eaten or having to stop to avoid danger in which case u wouldn't be a good propagator of genes...


However if u wanna fuck forever take and SSRI... It can make u last a really long time. At first it might even be difficult to cum but after a while u can cum when you want or go for a really long time. Even though it feels really good u don't get over excited as quick! I know it works for me and one of my friends used to complain because her boyfriend would take over an hour to be able to get off and she got bored of it because every day they'd have to spend at least a couple hours fucking and honestly if your a girl riding or even having him fuck you theres only so many reps of the same thing over and over until it get monotonous... I mean its cool to have a marathon when u want it but if u can't get off ever and you're girl feels obligated to have to get you off in her cunt and it is taking so much time she may get over it fairly fast... SOmetimes fucking all night for hours is nice but sometimes a quicky before you go out is all you want or have time for...
 
This might be a last resort, but SSRIs have been clinically proven to treat premature ejaculation quite effectively. Basically any pure SSRI (NOT WELLBUTRIN, which will do the opposite) will help to a great extent in extending sexual performance before orgasm. This is at least an option, though psychological and physical exercises would probably be a better first choice.
 
jaguraguguru said:
This might be a last resort, but SSRIs have been clinically proven to treat premature ejaculation quite effectively. Basically any pure SSRI (NOT WELLBUTRIN, which will do the opposite) will help to a great extent in extending sexual performance before orgasm. This is at least an option, though psychological and physical exercises would probably be a better first choice.
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right and SSRI's alone or in combination with certain other substances cause some people Erectile dysfunction where its a little bit harder to get really hard. Idk its nice being able to fuck as long as you want though.
 
Dray911 said:
you could just try taking some viagra then applying a numbing cream to your penis, you wont feel much but you should last until shes done or it stops working.
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yeh and realize some girls have a hard time cumming... so maybe better to giver her orgasms another way.,..
 
I think the incidence of ED in premature ejaculators treated with SSRIs is probably extremely low, unless they're taking heroic doses of SSRIs or taking them in conjunction with something else. For that matter, I believe that to some extent, caffeine and many other stimulants are actually anti-erection as they are usually vasoconstrictors whereas the penis requires vasodilation for erection.

Are you currently taking any drugs daily for any reason? Some things like amphetamines and ritalin can cause premature ejaculation.
 
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