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I can't cum!!!!

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Ive been dating this girl now for 2 weeks and we decided to have sex. It was her first time and mine as well. She is a super hot southern girl, nice body, big boobs ect. Needless to say she wanted it to be authentic so we didnt use a condom. That day we first did it in my room for about 30 min and I didnt cum but she did a few times. Second was head on the couch for 15min and I still didnt cum. later that day I was at her house and I spent the night. We did it for 3 hours, no condom and after she came multiple times I still didnt. We did it again tomorrow morning and again nothing. I can masturbate and cum in around 15-20min but not well doing her. I am circumcised and I havent came for about 3 weeks now with hopes that without masturbating it will help. Did it again tonight (a week after) and I was wearing a condom but no dice. Any advice?
 
Quit watching porn, quit masturbating, and don't use drugs & alcohol. Make sure you eat 3 healthy meals a day, take your vitamins, say your prayers, and exercise daily. Also, be sure to pay your bills and taxes on time.

After doing this, you should be able to blow a load with nooooooo proooobbblem!
 
Most likely first time anxiety, happened to me too. Don't beat yourself up about it, just relax.. if you can spooge from masturbation then you're obviously in working order. As said above cut the porn, masturbation, alcohol and drugs etc..
 
You should count your lucky stars and your lover should too. Wow somebody who can keep going for so long!
Okay actually coming... All the above queries of course, but if that's not working try sniffing poppers when you want to shoot your wad.
 
Anxiety. It'll pass as you get to know her better. She's probably really happy that she's met a guy who can keep it up and make her cum over again. Find the balance :)
 
hmmm

I don't take any drugs and I don't drink. I'll completely stop masturbating and hope that helps. She loves that I can make her cum so many times and squirt but hates with a passion that she cant make me cum. I tell her that its honestly no big deal because im happy that I last that long and can make her orgasm as she is a virgin.
 
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