I have an issue that I believe could be in this thread, please be patient with me. My situation is this, I do not have a bff or buddy that still gets or communicates experiences of the drug realm. So, I really have no one to talk to or do it with... About a month ago I decided to have my best friend (my husband whom I've dated for 11yrs and married for 3yrs) know about me and my choice on a controlled substance. Other than say the socially excepted ( cigarettes, coffee, weed, actual Rx, etc). He gave me his opinion and neither approved nor disapproved. However, it did become uncomfortable as he does look down on any controlled substance that could harm you on paper if caught(such as any encounter in a negative way with the authority system due to possession, intoxication etc.). So to make him feel better after debating every topic, I just told him that I would quit. Now I have, however I am a adult I can make my own choices, so I told him that I enjoy it and I can make these decisions for myself.
My point is I am going to do what I want to do, when I want to do it as long as I am holding my vows to him as a wife and vows to everyone as a friend, human being etc. Well, now I just do my own thing and omit the topic since no one like my answer(Because the answer is not what they want to hear).Is this necessarily wrong or what do you think about this issue? And I would really like to find contacts here so that I may have people to relate/socialize with on these issues.
Thank you, and sorry if this was confusing... You may asking anything you like, and I will decide and inform you whether I am able to disclose said information.
My point is I am going to do what I want to do, when I want to do it as long as I am holding my vows to him as a wife and vows to everyone as a friend, human being etc. Well, now I just do my own thing and omit the topic since no one like my answer(Because the answer is not what they want to hear).Is this necessarily wrong or what do you think about this issue? And I would really like to find contacts here so that I may have people to relate/socialize with on these issues.
Thank you, and sorry if this was confusing... You may asking anything you like, and I will decide and inform you whether I am able to disclose said information.