...Between two gay men in their underwear.
But it is all platonic. Not even an accidental touch.
See, a friend from Canada, who is currently studying Chinese in China, decided to spend his holiday in SE Asia. So he asked if he and his friend could stay over while in bangkok. I said yes, of course!
And so they're here. Seeing that my room came with a king-size bed, I am sharing my bed with a mattress added right beside it.
Oh, and one fact I must mention is that I actually have never met this friend before two days ago when he came here!! I've known him on the internet for about 6 years, never managed to meet him when he lived in Toronto, then he moved to Vancouver but we kept in touch.
It is very interesting that we only managed to meet on the other side of the world. And wonderful, too!
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I knew already that he had lots of issues with intimacy, so I never went there. And indeed, he reconfirmed that as sex entered our general conversations. I don't know about his friend, but I get the impression that he has no interest whatsoever in me.
But that's perfectly ok.
I am just very, very, very thankful to finally have company. I had been dying of loneliness. This is such a pleasant change. I was so happy to take care of them and take them on tours around the city. I also took them gemstone shopping which they appreciated as a sort of off-the-beaten-track tourism... and I also took them through a small stroll through the redlight districts. There is a street made just for Japanese prostitutes. As we walked through it, a feeling of extreme disgust and sadness crept over me. Girls everywhere lined up the streets like commodities in a market to be advertised by some older men or women. Then we went through what seemed to be a gay asian meat market. Now that was plain scary. Claustrophobic, purple-neon everywhere, loud music, and countless asian boys everywhere. Also countless touts that, at one point, surrounded us, since it was early at night and it seemed as though we were the first prey that night. The official gay lane was rather underwhelming. It is a lane (soi) alright, lined up with about 6 bars and a massage parlour, but seeing as it was early hours, it was pretty much empty and the bars were closed.
I'm hoping to make the most of today because they leave to Chiang Mai tomorrow. I plan to take them to see the temples in bangkok, and hopefully we can catch a boat ride later.
And did I mention, they are both giants? They are both very, very, very, very TALL. I literally have to look up when talking to them! They make me feel so tiny :D
But it is all platonic. Not even an accidental touch.
See, a friend from Canada, who is currently studying Chinese in China, decided to spend his holiday in SE Asia. So he asked if he and his friend could stay over while in bangkok. I said yes, of course!
And so they're here. Seeing that my room came with a king-size bed, I am sharing my bed with a mattress added right beside it.
Oh, and one fact I must mention is that I actually have never met this friend before two days ago when he came here!! I've known him on the internet for about 6 years, never managed to meet him when he lived in Toronto, then he moved to Vancouver but we kept in touch.
It is very interesting that we only managed to meet on the other side of the world. And wonderful, too!
I knew already that he had lots of issues with intimacy, so I never went there. And indeed, he reconfirmed that as sex entered our general conversations. I don't know about his friend, but I get the impression that he has no interest whatsoever in me.
But that's perfectly ok.
I am just very, very, very thankful to finally have company. I had been dying of loneliness. This is such a pleasant change. I was so happy to take care of them and take them on tours around the city. I also took them gemstone shopping which they appreciated as a sort of off-the-beaten-track tourism... and I also took them through a small stroll through the redlight districts. There is a street made just for Japanese prostitutes. As we walked through it, a feeling of extreme disgust and sadness crept over me. Girls everywhere lined up the streets like commodities in a market to be advertised by some older men or women. Then we went through what seemed to be a gay asian meat market. Now that was plain scary. Claustrophobic, purple-neon everywhere, loud music, and countless asian boys everywhere. Also countless touts that, at one point, surrounded us, since it was early at night and it seemed as though we were the first prey that night. The official gay lane was rather underwhelming. It is a lane (soi) alright, lined up with about 6 bars and a massage parlour, but seeing as it was early hours, it was pretty much empty and the bars were closed.
I'm hoping to make the most of today because they leave to Chiang Mai tomorrow. I plan to take them to see the temples in bangkok, and hopefully we can catch a boat ride later.
And did I mention, they are both giants? They are both very, very, very, very TALL. I literally have to look up when talking to them! They make me feel so tiny :D

Jammy