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K'd-OUT-in-AZ

K'd-OUT-in-AZ

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OK, so I'm into weird shit don't know if I'm fucked in head or not. I'm well into something I guess is called humiliation. I have fantasies that my girlfriend won't fulfill and never will because she has too much feelings for me. I think about even getting a prostitute but I know then I'd be a bad person.

OK so, I want a girl (or girls) to laugh at me when I get naked and spit in my face. Have me tied up when I'm forced to watch my girlfriend laugh at how small I am (I'm almost 6 inches...almost) while she fucks some really big guy and call me names and what not. I want to be spanked and told how stupid I am and how worthless I am. I want my face to be forced and rubbed into cum.

No this is not a joke, I don't joke around. I have had a girl who has done this once before. I guess I started getting thoughts like this once I found out an ex-girlfriend was cheating on me with my best friend. So I dunno, does this mean I have problems with my head, like self-esteem/self-image problems, something like that or is this a fantasy (that has been lived...) that other people may have?

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K'd-OUT-in-AZ said:
" does this mean I have problems with my head, like self-esteem/self-image problems, something like that or is this a fantasy (that has been lived...) that other people may have?
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Search cuckolding. Its HUGE.

You're not weird man. Image problems? I really doubt it.

This is one really hard fantasy to play out, after watching one of these films I found, I understood why this is so difficult. Best of luck man.
 
The whole cuckhold thing is def not my cup of tea... I guess i am more dominate during sex.... and you seem to be more submissive


I am more into the whole rape fantasy..... You would be surprised how many girls like that fantasy....
 
As long as no one is getting hurt (physically or emotionally) without consent, there is absolutely nothing wrong with your kink!

The femdom/cuckold kink may or may not have to do with a certain 'mental issue'. The same can be said with all other kinks/fetishes, though! Whatever your case is, as long as you and your partner remain safe, sane, and consensual...you have nothing to be ashamed of. Happy exploring!
 
K'd out, that's totally normal, nothing is wrong with you. I have some fetishes/kinks I don't even feel comfortable typing out on here. Humiliation and rape fantasies can be important for a lot of people, especially being the submissive one. Did you talk to your girlfriend about this, or are you just assuming? I know that I'd personally enjoy it if I could find someone who also liked that sort of thing.
 
It's a category alongside "anal" and "boobs" porn on most sites. You're not toooo weird, dude.
 
sounds like your really dwelling on this!

having read your other thread I think you and your girlfriend are on a completely different page

there is nothing wrong with the fetish, but you wont stop craving till you get what you want
sounds like your girlfriend cares about you and wouldn't want to make you feel bad in any way.

Maybe a girl who truly doesn't care :)
I would only be ok with this if I didn't emotionally care about the Guy
 
I'm sure there's tons of people who have exponentially more fucked up kinks than this one you do have

so I wouldn't worry about that part. even if it is connected to some mental issue - who cares? it doesn't matter anyways
 
hha yes there are, i used to live with a retired, "dungeon master"... its pretty astounding what is considered legal...

"but you wont stop craving till you get what you want"

maybe maybe not, no good to throw it all in though.

there isnt anything wrong with this, depending on who youre with,,, its just the situation with your GF...
sounds like you are going to have to chose at some point.
i would just explore the origin of the urge, and decide with time what seems fair for the both of you.

how long has this been back for so strongly?
 
It's not weird. Most girls won't go for this.

You have to find girls that fall into this niche. Start at craigslist. lol
 
youre not messed up - what your fetish is can be fully consensual and who is anyone to judge you for something which doesnt hurt anyone/anything?

on the other hand, if your girlfriend is not into it, then you should not go behind her back to fulfill this fantasy. find other ways to try satisfy your desire perhaps, or if it becomes too strong of an urge, then end the relationship.

if you care about her dont hurt her.
 
you are not messed up, you just know what you want, which is more than most people can say.

But dude, you have the world at your finger tips....... internet is amazing, you know that thing you are using right now. And I am not talking about for watching porn, I am talking about for seeking out like minded individuals. So, go for it!!
 
Thx guys for the answers, I really appreciate, that's good to know I'm not alone. To tell you the truth I'm really obsessed with the size of my penis, I want my girlfriend to fuck someone with a huge cock so I can feel embarrassed. I know this is a turn off to women, being so obsessed with the size of your cock. But I want to feel inferior and that turns me on. "I wish I could do that, I'll never be able to do that..." I guess that's why I'm into humiliation.

I've always wondered if I'm bisexual, my girlfriend is. What if I were to say I'd also like to be forced to choke on a cock when my girlfriend is in the middle of fucking? See the thing is I could never ever imagine being with a guy, kissing, taking dick up my ass nothing like that "yuck" BUT if I were with my girlfriend I could imagine...taking cock in my mouth...forced. ONLY would I do this if I were with my girlfriend.

That's the only fantasy I've had having anything to do with a guy. I know I could never fall in love with another guy. That's completely disgusting to me, kissing and holding hands...but with my fantasy, would you call that bi-sexual?
 
I wouldn't call it bi-sexual or gay in the most straight-up definition of the word. though what you're into isn't the most straightest of the things

again, K'd, I'm a big fan. you have helped me out immensely in these focus forums over the years with your wealth of knowledge. but let me be the one to help you out now with some advice...

I think you are going too far to put a label on yourself. you like what you like, there is nothing you or your girlfriend can do about that. it seems like your obsession to put a label on your kinks "gay" "straight" or "bi" might be interfering with your life/love life a little. I wouldn't worry about it so much...
 
I agree with fuck the labeling. I know plenty of guys who have the dick sucking fantasy, and most of them are dating women. It's not "gay-bi-straight", I think it's more of a spectrum with everyone's sexuality falling somewhere on it. I know I definitely don't identify with any of those terms, to be honest. You are also definitely not alone with being aroused by being forced to do things, the fact that there's a good deal of porn out there you can find about it must mean there are more than a handful of us searching for it. I don't think that fantasy necessarily has any particular gender involved in it either, that's sort of like a sub-category of it I suppose.

I also don't think this necessarily points to underlying mental issues either...it COULD, but I doubt it in most cases.
 
It's a fetish - and believe it or not, it is somewhat common. As a girl, that's not something that I'd be able to do. I would say get porn and stick with that if you love your girl. See if you have another fantasy that works for the both of you :P
 
I'm kinda shocked that so many women here would not fulfill this man's fantasy?

may I ask why not, ladies? (hypothetically if you are in a relationship with this guy, you love him, and you find out about this fantasy of his)
 
axl blaze said:
I'm kinda shocked that so many women here would not fulfill this man's fantasy?

may I ask why not, ladies? (hypothetically if you are in a relationship with this guy, you love him, and you find out about this fantasy of his)
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Just to clear this up, as you can tell from reading my previous replies, fuck yeah I would fulfill that fantasy. If I was in a relationship with a guy who asked me that, I'd be pretty excited honestly. I don't understand why other people "won't do it," it's fetish play...if I'm not going to do something, it's because it's a turn off, not because of "moral reasons." I'd just hope that he was willing to take part in MY weird fantasies as well :)
 
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