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How to talk dirty?

dizzychainsaw

dizzychainsaw

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I want to talk dirty to my boyfriend while we are having sex but I always feel so awkward and nervous about it. I guess I'm self conscious. The most I've managed to say is, "You feel so good inside of me." Does anyone have any suggestions?
 
confidence is the sexiest thing when having sex! be flirty, and try to roll play a little! if you have to, watch some porn and see the kind of things they say. it may be awkward at first, but once you get the hang of being freaky it'll come naturally!
i say all kinds of things lol
"you like that wet pussy baby?"
"oh your dick is sooo good"
"i cant wait to squirt all over your juicy fat dick, and lick it all off"
"mmm baby i cant get enough of that juicy dick"
"mmm baby you fuck me so good"
"fuck me hard baby"
"give it to me"
"make me scream your name baby"
"make it clap"
"mmm baby i just love suckin that sexy dick"
there's a ton more, but i cant really think! it's just the spur of the moment kind of thing! try to take notice in what sexual actions he loves the most and talk about those. for instance, my boyfriend loves how i suck him up.. and he loves when he cums inside me, so i tend to talk and moan while suckin him up. and talk about how i want us to cum at the same time!
good luck!
 
@Disraeli_Beers omg no!! what is that!? i must know more! ive totally considered being a phone sex operator! but i know i wouldnt be able to keep it discreet! lol
 
EVOL: I don't want to derail the thread so hurry up and get some more posts so I can PM you!

It's literary porn, google that shit. I write some myself. In fact we need a place to post our literotica!
 
Get drunk, loosen up and be filthy. Once you've done it a few times, it will come a lot easier.

Dirty talk is awesome - I find it a major turn on. You just have to let go of your hang ups and go with the flow. Talking about what feels good, what you want him to do, or what you want to do to him (in detail) are all easy ways to get started.

Don't force it either, you don't want it to come off as unnatural. Wait until you're having a wild session, and then just go with it.
 
tell me how tight my pussy is
fuck your dick feels good inside of me
harder harder harder
call me a dirty whore
im your filthy cunt
right there right there

its always good to throw in some whispers "you like that pussy dont you baby,tell me you like it shhhh shhhhhhhhhh FUUUUUUCKCCC
 
If you're a little embarrassed or uncomfortable talking "dirty" then just give honest verbal feedback to your partner.

Right there, quoted from above, is a good one.

If you focus in on your body experience and ask for whatever comes to your mind about your orgasm, say it.

Pinch my nipples,

put your body weight down in your hips and press into me. Yea just like that.

Whatever it is that will take your orgasm to the next level, ask for it. I think you'll get over your awkwardness when it's real to you.

From there you can branch out into insult dirty talk if you want. I don't like to be told I'm basically a horrible piece of shit while I'm trying my hardest to make a man cum. But whatever.
 
dizzychainsaw said:
I want to talk dirty to my boyfriend while we are having sex but I always feel so awkward and nervous about it. I guess I'm self conscious. The most I've managed to say is, "You feel so good inside of me." Does anyone have any suggestions?
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you can never go wrong saying things like deeper faster or that it feels good,tell your man to play with your tities,if you say these I guarantee success,you cant fail with these
 
Maybe start of by moaning and just short phrases or words, not necessarily going all out. But start of simple and basic and eventually you will have the confidence :).
 
I never really had an issue with it (i'm a guy) except when a select few women ive been with just didnt like it. If you can so a smooth sexy voice, instruct him what you want him to do or what you wanna do for me. The best dirty talk i had was with a stripper (i know right?). She would tell me how badly she wanted my cock. How she wanted to taste it, feel it deep in her throat. Then tell me to go down on her and play with her clit, to push my tongue deep inside her tight pussy. Then spit on it. Then she would beg me for my cock. Telling me she needs it, to feel me inside her. To go real hard, bite her nipples, choke her, and that she was my dirty whore. And that she wanted to feel my hot cum deep inside her.
Basic stuff like that. I usually text dirty to get a girl worked up before i see her so when i do, she'll demand exactly what she wants. And oh does she get it ;)
 
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