Hi,
I am currently in a situation in which I have divorced over six months ago and my soon four year old daughter understands that mommy has his own house and dad has his own house and that they don't anymore love each other and won't be a couple anymore but they are still mom and dad to her.
I have been seeing a girl for a while and we are in a relationship now and have even been thinking about her moving to my house soon. My girlfriend has spare time during weekends and would like to see me as often as possible but I have my daughter with me during weekends for one or two nights depending on how we choose with my ex-wife. Therefore I haven't been seeing my girlfriend when my daughter is with me so she don't have to think about difficult stuff about who is she for her etc.
As my relationship with my girlfriend has come into a stage in which we are considering her to move to my place so my daughter has to see my girlfriend after moving together anyway.
I would like to know how I could introduce my girlfriend to my daughter in the best way and would like to hear how others have worked out this.
Thanks in advance for any advice.
I am currently in a situation in which I have divorced over six months ago and my soon four year old daughter understands that mommy has his own house and dad has his own house and that they don't anymore love each other and won't be a couple anymore but they are still mom and dad to her.
I have been seeing a girl for a while and we are in a relationship now and have even been thinking about her moving to my house soon. My girlfriend has spare time during weekends and would like to see me as often as possible but I have my daughter with me during weekends for one or two nights depending on how we choose with my ex-wife. Therefore I haven't been seeing my girlfriend when my daughter is with me so she don't have to think about difficult stuff about who is she for her etc.
As my relationship with my girlfriend has come into a stage in which we are considering her to move to my place so my daughter has to see my girlfriend after moving together anyway.
I would like to know how I could introduce my girlfriend to my daughter in the best way and would like to hear how others have worked out this.
Thanks in advance for any advice.