How to get over this.

[anniegram]

What a superficial, silly thing to be hung up on. If having the biggest dick ever is so important to you, go get plastic surgery or something. Just the fact that you even asked your girlfriend that screams insecurity. Maybe look inside yourself to see why it's so important to you to have the biggest dick. It's not like she called you up out of the blue and said "oh hey, FYI, I've seen dicks bigger than yours". You asked, she answered. Don't give her any flack about it in the future and I would say lay off the sexual history conversations if you're not secure enough to talk about it.

 

[Nicholai]

Let's turn this around a bit. Imagine if she had asked you if she had the biggest vag of any chick you'd ever slept with, and you said, "Aye, you've got the Batcave down there, for real! Holla!" *echoes*

Or, you had asked if you had the most dangly nuts of anyone she'd ever slept with? "Yeah man, those things keep getting stuck to my forehead...could you watch that? I'm tired of having to wash ball sweat off me face every time we get dirty."

You need to get over the whole 'bigger is better' thing. Having the biggest dick doesn't equate to being the most skilled in bed. There are lots of guys with big dicks who really don't know how to fuck, have problems with premature ejactulation, impotence, booty funk, and all else. Does not having the largest schlong in the universe really compare, when you think about it?

It doesn't really matter anyway. I direct you to this diagram. Learn it well.

 

[pazma]

If she's still with you, it's obvious the size of your dick doesn't bother her. She's not hung up on it, so you shouldn't be. If she was after the man with the biggest dick, she'd be gone by now, looking elsewhere.
From a girl's perspective, we don't care that much about dick size (unless it's like 4"…and some girls can even look past that; I can't because most of my best orgasms happen during vaginal sex and a 4" dick isn't going to accomplish that unfortunately--but that's irrelevant bc it doesn't even apply to you). I've been with a lot of guys with huge dicks and guys with smaller dicks and guys with in between dicks. My current boyfriend isn't the "biggest" I've ever been with but that means nothing to me because we have amazing sexual chemistry, compatibility, and communcation--all of those things are much more important than size. In fact humongous dicks kind of hurt, especially when the guy who wields this weapon doesn't know how to properly use it.

 

[llama112]

Size of your dick is hardly the only reason someone is in a relationship.

 

[lifterpuller]

Thanks for all the replys everyone.

I feel really stupid for even considering this an issue, I feel even stupider letting her know that it bothered me and showing my insecurity. When we started this relationship we agreed to be 100% open and honest and I should have never asked a question that I wasn't ready for the answer.

I don't know why this bothered me so much but after talking to her about it and hearing the responses here I feel a lot better.
She told me that I was the best sex she ever had and I believe her, she also told me that I am the only guy ever to give her an orgasm though vaginal intercourse which makes me feel pretty good.

I feel like such an insecure bitch for making a big deal of this, I'm not small, I'm like 6.5''-7'' and thicker than average I would guess. I guess I just didn't think about things rationally, sometimes I have a tenancy to just act without thinking and then end up paying for it later.

I'm just glad I didn't do/say anything that would put our relationship in jeopardy.

Thanks everyone.