How to act around new girlfriend

[shahab6]

Did you even read his original post?

Is that to me? if so
yes i did, he said he wants to bond more with this girl. And you can't bond with a girl watching a movie If you want to bond, you have to go 1 on 1 to places, not with others, espicially if your both shy, sometimes others will end of doing all the talking, and u two end up only listening, and u get no bonding.

Also talk about whatever topics that come up, about your day, news, coworkers, friends, events or even bl, sometimes theres interesteing topics that come up here, where i have told my friends to. The more you talk and go places, the more u have topics to talk about. foe axample you go some place you meet some new people, and then later on, you can tal kabout them, I don't recommend this, but talking shit about others, can gets both of you going.

people think when they talk to girls, it has to be something particler topic, but thats not the case. IF u have talked about the above topics and you still feel its being forced its possible you don't have much in common, for example one of my female friends we can talk for hours, but my other female friend I can barly talk to her for 10 mins, cause I don't have much in common, or am not comfortable with her that much to talk to her freely.

It comes natuarlly when you have a lot in common, but if u have to think before hand what to talk about, you might want to do more activity so you become more conforable around each other.

 

[Joeof1]

Have you thought about just talking to her moreso to get to know her? Having sex doesn't really do much other than make the physical connection. Knowing a person implies actually knowing who they are through conversation.

If you're shy you are going to have to suck it up or be stuck in one lousy soulless relationship after another.

 

[bighooter]

Thanks ever so much for the responses guys. I think overall i'm just going to have to act more confident however hard that might be.

You're right though if she likes me then obviously aslong as I dont seem like a pussy then shes gonna want me so confidence it is then im going to start pumping iron again as I feel more confident when im stronger.