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How often do you have sex?

Once a week for me, ugh, married too, why does it change when you get married?? And when I'm on the sauce, it really sucks, thinking about ordering a fleshlight........
 
Oats said:
I feel like sex is a big part of a relationship. I don't think i have sex enough, although i am the one to say no most of the time...mainly because i like the "setting to be right". how often do you have sex in a week or in a month?
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7am when hubby wakes for work, 6pm when hubby returns home and 1am before sleep.
 
Mezz said:
In my head......about 10 times a day (actually could be more!).....in reality once or twice a week due to me working stupid hours, which means it's really just a weekend thing; factor into that two menstrual cycles (I'm a lesbian, so hers and mine lol), and things can get a bit sporadic!
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what's lesbian sex like haha, if you dont mind me asking? what do you two usually do?..sorry if that's awkward!
 
scissor lulz

tuesday usually 2 or 3 times. friday night too. with my work schedule i never really want to. plus comin off opies im done so quick and always gotta go down on her unless we do it multiple times
 
she phoenix said:
Sex on period unfortunately has to happen sometimes as I only get to see my boy every few weeks and my pill causes ridiculous periods that ALWAYS get in the way - he was due to come see me for 2 days a while back and just for the occasion, by body produced the most stupid two day period in the whole fucking world. It gets very frustrating, we wait and wait for it to go away but usually by the end we just give up. We have NEEDS god damn it! Yeah, I'm pretty cross with the way my body's going at the moment.
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I'd seriously suggest getting the implant (implanon) - haven't had a period in 2 years, I'm like a bionic woman, up for it any time of month! :)

To answer the original question: once or twice a day when I see my bf (about 4 nights per week) unless we're both very tired or ill. Occasional sex with lovers maybe a couple of times a month (we're in an open relationship).
 
Well, if I'm to gauge an estimate number based on the past several months, I'd say about 1-2 times a week. Unfortunate that my girlfriend has a problem with UTIs and the clinic that she goes to is terrible.
 
Oats said:
what's lesbian sex like haha, if you dont mind me asking? what do you two usually do?..sorry if that's awkward!
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...well it's not quite like they portray it in the pornos....all high heels and stockings!! Also there is a very good reason you will rarely see a lesbian with long finger nails (the very thought brings a tear to my eye!);)
 
Mysterier said:
Well, if I'm to gauge an estimate number based on the past several months, I'd say about 1-2 times a week. Unfortunate that my girlfriend has a problem with UTIs and the clinic that she goes to is terrible.
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Ugh. I know this is OT, but I feel for girls with this problem. Tell her to get AZO. It's a lifesaver. It's so miserable when you're susceptible to that shit.
 
Once a week perhaps for the last 3-4 years. Together for 7 years.
I used to get bent about this but quality over quantity rules in our bedroom and honestly I am okay with this now.
 
Mezz said:
...well it's not quite like they portray it in the pornos....all high heels and stockings!! Also there is a very good reason you will rarely see a lesbian with long finger nails (the very thought brings a tear to my eye!);)
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My best friend is bi and she has medium length nails. btw if you are bi can you be call lesbian?
 
Well in my current relationship, in the beginning it was happening about once a week, then after a couple of months 2-3 times a week, then a few months later it got to every night, and now about once a month lately :( This is shit
**added ... about once a month with someone else involved anyway lol
 
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Lysis said:
Ugh. I know this is OT, but I feel for girls with this problem. Tell her to get AZO. It's a lifesaver. It's so miserable when you're susceptible to that shit.
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Yeah, I try to be as patient and understanding as possible, because I don't really understand what she's going through -- but it sounds incredibly uncomfortable and annoying for her. She does use AZO, but she said that it doesn't really work all that well. I think she mentioned that she's used it a lot and it's expected effect isn't what it used to be.
 
I would probably have actual intercourse once a month with my partner, but fool around almost every time that we see each other (we don't live together, and probably see each other a few times a week). For us, I think we are just both busy people, and like someone else mentioned, I also like the setting to be just right. I also not one of those people that craves it also, don't get me wrong, when it does happen, it's nice. But I don't 'need' it a set amount on a set day and my partner is the same. I think I've always been like this, call me crazy.
 
My partner and I have been together for nearly 8 years. We usually have sex 2-3 times a week, more if I'm hormonal.
Although we haven't had sex for a couple of weeks because I've been too stressed. Stress completely destroys my libido. Thankfully the cause of my stress is ending tomorrow (exams) so then I'll be back in the game! :)


Mysterier I have been there and done that with chronic UTIs, it was definitely one of the worst medical issues I've had to endure. So I really feel for your girl. I'm assuming she's been to a specialist?? If not, tell her to go to one asap.
 
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