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How often do you go down on your partner?

Pharcyde said:
Anytime reallu. I dont do it as much with my current gf because shes kinda got some weight to her and i prefer face riding and i prefer skinny girls for that. Shallow i know
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Same.. I like having sex with skinny and thick women, but don't enjoy eating out a thicker woman.

More OT, I enjoy eating pussy so before and during.
 
Whenever we have a chance of having a prolonged unhurried session.
She doesn't like it if I go down on her when she hasn't had the chance to wash down there, so it's never an impromptu thing for us.
 
ZombieK said:
When he asks for it. It isn't my favorite thing to do lol. We do it before and during. Receiving oral sex is okay to me but it doesn't really get me going all the way. I think it also has a lot to do with my insecurities about my body.
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that's about to change, he's your boyfriend now, take the time you need to take off :D
 
On a whim? Do they ask? Before/during/after sex?

^ all of the above :)
i quite like giving oral sex (the body trembles from the guy and the look on the face is priceless) and also receiving it (as many guys i know wouldn't go down on a girl)
 
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Every time we have sex, I go down on him....I like doing it, he likes me to do it, I am pretty good at it....he does not return the favor...we have been together for 15 years now, a long time ago he told me he did not particularly like doing it, so whenever he tries now, it makes me uncomfortable because I know he is not enjoying it. Lucky for me that I can climax from plain old fucking.
 
I've been with my husband for 6+ years, and he's only gone down on me maybe twice. I know it's not anything about the way I look, smell, etc. I think it's just more laziness on his part. He's a great guy, but expects me to give him oral every time we're intimate. Any suggestions on how I can approach the subject with him, without hurting his feelings or starting an argument? I have asked him before why he won't do it, and he just replies "I've never liked doing it, even in my past relationships."
 
EastCoastRN31 said:
I've been with my husband for 6+ years, and he's only gone down on me maybe twice. I know it's not anything about the way I look, smell, etc. I think it's just more laziness on his part. He's a great guy, but expects me to give him oral every time we're intimate. Any suggestions on how I can approach the subject with him, without hurting his feelings or starting an argument? I have asked him before why he won't do it, and he just replies "I've never liked doing it, even in my past relationships."
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well shit, nobody I know likes doing the laundry, or cleaning the house, paying bills - but it's still something that's gotta get done, right?

i'd say "hey buddy. you're gonna eat this thing, and you're gonna friggin like it. or else i'll find someone who will."
 
EastCoastRN31 said:
I've been with my husband for 6+ years, and he's only gone down on me maybe twice. I know it's not anything about the way I look, smell, etc. I think it's just more laziness on his part. He's a great guy, but expects me to give him oral every time we're intimate. Any suggestions on how I can approach the subject with him, without hurting his feelings or starting an argument? I have asked him before why he won't do it, and he just replies "I've never liked doing it, even in my past relationships."
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Well, just express that you'd like to do it. Help him want to give it a try. Find out why he's "never liked doing it". Does he not know what to do? Does he just want penis stimulation and can't get hard if he's concentrating on pleasing you? Suggest a 69 to get the ball rolling if that's the case.
 
Beachcat said:
Every time we have sex, I go down on him....I like doing it, he likes me to do it, I am pretty good at it....he does not return the favor...we have been together for 15 years now, a long time ago he told me he did not particularly like doing it, so whenever he tries now, it makes me uncomfortable because I know he is not enjoying it. Lucky for me that I can climax from plain old fucking.
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You're one of the rare ones that can get off doing that. I think it's pretty hard to come across a woman that can cum from just fucking, but I've heard they're out there and now I have proof it's true. Thanks for that!
 
every single time. it mandatory...or I wont go back for seconds... although I once was married to a guy for 3 short months. He did not enjoy giving or recieving... He was the WORST lay I have ever had...
 
When I've a girlfriend, yes, all of the above. There is not a single scenario I wouldn't excuse myself from to do that. Like, I really mean any scenario, and believe me, I've considered them all. I would leave Stevie Wonder's granddaughter's christening to do that for my girlfriend, for instance. Awkward/moralistic/sanitary etc, impediments need and do not apply.

Usually though, it's before sex (which always preps things nicely in lube/tight terms), and sadly usually not varied enough between oral and rimming. I love doing both, but mainly I want her happy.

westsidewoman66 said:
every single time. it mandatory...or I wont go back for seconds... although I once was married to a guy for 3 short months. He did not enjoy giving or recieving... He was the WORST lay I have ever had...
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
 
I'd do it to my man every day if i could :p, however, his sex drive is not anywhere close to how strong mine is :(
 
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