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How many tries to find Your "Freak"

Pariahprose

Pariahprose

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How many different sex partners did you have befor you found that one that was willing to try almost everything you wanted to do sexually? What all did you do(or have you done if still with them) Things still on your "to do" list?

For me it took 9...and I have been with just 10 total..girl number 10 came from a threesome...lol...Still with that same girl. Thus far have tried:Oral,Anal,Threesome,Foursome(let another guy fuck her while I did another girl),mutual masturbation...


Would like to watch her have a threesome with two black dudes,or quite possibly join n myself, would that technically make it a gangbang since its three dudes on one girl (ya,saw the thread in here about that and I was like huh,someone else with a similar fantasy,lmao).
 
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I hit the jackpot with my first, ha...the main thing I wanted to try was getting tied up and all sorts of BDSM, which I'm massively into, and he was totally up for it. It was awesome.
We also had sex outside a lot, got caught once which was awkward hahah
+ anal etc but that was more his wish than mine

I dunno, for the moment being the only fantasy I've got left is being in a threesome with 2 guys :)
 
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I dunno, for the moment being the only fantasy I've got left is being in a threesome with 2 guys :)
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That's mine too ... my boyfriend is up for it but we have to find a guy who is too! Which is pretty difficult. Because he has to be
a) attractive (for both my boyfriend and I)
b) bisexual or at least bicurious
c) interested in the threesome situation
d) not a good friend but still someone who we can trust
Apparently it's hard finding someone with all those four qualities. Hahah.

Hmmm my first boyfriend wasn't really adventurous but we were each others "firsts" so neither of us had much/any experience. My boyfriend now (second) is pretty adventurous, probably more so than me. We haven't tried everything but we have a few things on our list of things we want to try :)
 
^You're lucky your boyfriend's up to it though! Hopefully you'll be able to find the missing guy soon ;)
I think I'd probably rather it be with two random strangers, if I had a boyfriend I wouldn't want to see him getting it on with someone else I think haha
 
My last girlfriend was pretty much up for anything. She was a big fan of anal and we had a threesome together (two girls). Generally speaking, she was just into sex and happy to try new things. The sexual chemistry between us was pretty intense - which is more imporant to me than ticking experiences off my list.

I had about 40 or so partners before her. Most of these were one night stands, which isn't really the time to bring up all sorts of kinky things.

My previous long term sexual partners (both girlfriends and fuck buddies) were into sex and did most of the more vanilla things like blow jobs, a bit of light bondage, different positions. In order to have an ongoing sexual relationship I need someone who isn't a prude. most of these girls were not into anal though (not that it is a big thing for me - but I do like it now and then) and one did it a few times but didn't like it much.
 
Pagey said:
^You're lucky your boyfriend's up to it though! Hopefully you'll be able to find the missing guy soon ;)
I think I'd probably rather it be with two random strangers, if I had a boyfriend I wouldn't want to see him getting it on with someone else I think haha
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I can definitely understand that! My boyfriend is kinda bi (definitely more into girls but he finds guys attractive and has kissed guys before, just not much further than that) so it's not that difficult. It could definitely be weird if it was with someone else though!
Hard to find someone who fits the criteria, especially since my bf and I are so picky lol. It probably won't happen anytime soon, but we're always on the lookout :p lol. We did have a guy that we both found ridiculously hot. He's definitely into girls but I believe he's had a couple experiences with guys. Not completely bi but kind of? I don't know how to describe it. And he hit on me (before he knew I was with my bf). So it would have been ideal. But then he got married :( lol (and his wife is very much a prude hahah).
 
I've asked a couple guys to indulge my kink (I'm not gonna put it out there lol) and they both did. The problem was they were clearly just doing it for my sake, which takes most of the pleasure out of it. Plus, I barely even knew them and I'm not really the fuck buddy type.
 
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