averagejoe33
Greenlighter
I agree, Have wonder what it would be like for years.
It's definitely not my fantasy to suck off a straight guy. I've been with a few curious ones and they're always lousy in bed, and they always inevitably go running after some woman and never speak to you again in order to overcompensate for how emasculated they feel for having been with me. There's also no emotional connection whatsoever. They may enjoy the physical pleasure temporarily but their hearts are still for women, just like my heart will always be for men. I don't fall in love with women, so why would I expect a straight guy to offer me anything meaningful other than some momentary non-sense?
It's super common for high straight guys to come on to me especially in the festival scene, but again it's a waste of time, and it's also unethical because high people can't consent. I know other gay guys who take advantage and I think they are idiots... but some people are opportunists and they'll do anything to fulfill their fantasies.
The whole gay on straight guy phenomenon has been seriously magnified by the gay porn industry. Gay porn used to feature gay men now the market for "straight for pay" is so huge that it's a primary fantasy in the gay community. I REALLY don't get it. Is it so that you can feel validated, like you conquered the straight world or something? I like guys who are into guys. Why would I waste my time on someone into women? It's self-demeaning.
As said I started this thread fucked up outta my mind on benzos.. Now on a little meth and a tiny amount of morphine I can say I like to jack off to pussy brought onto the fact I was on meth. I wanna lick it, suck it, fuck it, sit on her face, have her suck my dick BUT it really only turns me on if it's group sex or a gangbang. And I wouldn't do nething I wldnt want done to me to her. It's wierd I find it ESP hot for a gir to eat a guys ass I jack off to me in a gang bang and each of us sitting on her face as she munches away..I also picture this happenening to me, but the funn thing is I would ne ever eat a girls ass, but def have no problem eating a guys asse s asses as long as they look good and are clean.
I can't understand why I should want to blow a straight guy either I imagine gay guys that do are confusing heterosexuality with masculinity to some degree. I like to feel sexy and intensely desired if I am giving head, I like to feel devoured by his eyes, that he is giddy and almost incredulous to have me giving myself to him in such a manor. A straight guy isn't going to even want to look at my male body and it will be all up to me to keep myself turned on, what's fun about that?
Cool.
I just worry for fellow gays that get turned on by being used, and hope they can truly compartmentalize it to sex and it isnt something that manifests itself in multiple parts of their life due to low self esteem. Maybe I am being prudish.
I think it's definitely possible for a guy to be straight and still like having another guy sucking his cock. I'm gonna go ahead & say GIVING a dude a blowjob can be fun for a straight guy, too. Here's the reason I think so -
I've had oral performed on me by other chicks, & girls have also gotten me to return the favor for sure. Even though I'm not really all that attracted to the same sex, I've definitely enjoyed myself on both ends of the deal!
Giving a girl head is the shit because I'm way into showing off my sexual prowess (my skillz)... I'm always complimented on them & get a repeat requestusually said request is made in private, away from any male we we're both messing around with. Sometimes the dude can't make them come this way but I can. A chick is sometimes able to 'let go' more when they're not self-conscious about a hot guy seeing them make the o face. A last reason to enjoy? It's hot knowing you're making somebody come.
Why I enjoy receiving is pretty obvious... Feels amazing for one thing. Another thing that turns me on is knowing that this is way different than what I usually enjoy. It's kind of like, feeling like I'm being a freak or doing something that weirds me out a little is its own turn on even.
When people talk about sucking straights there is always the power dynamic - but the question is who is using who :D