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How many guys secretly think girls with piercing/tattoos/stretched ears not cute :x

Of course not Maya...but it is your sweet personality and kind words that always makes me picture you as cute!!

Oh you are in for a lot of trouble lady. Please read a book by Dr. Phil called Life Code. It's in my opinion the only good product that came out of that non-sense TV show. Who you meet online is definitely not who you imagine. There's abusers and takers out there who use kind words to deceive you. You need to know your own value and not fall for that.

Maya's a good person not talking about her here. Just setting the right example.
 
Oh you are in for a lot of trouble lady. Please read a book by Dr. Phil called Life Code. It's in my opinion the only good product that came out of that non-sense TV show. Who you meet online is definitely not who you imagine. There's abusers and takers out there who use kind words to deceive you. You need to know your own value and not fall for that.

Maya's a good person not talking about her here. Just setting the right example.

suggesting that a member refer to "dr phil" for life coaching is not an example id claim to be the right approach.

...kytnism...:|
 
Hipsters have ruined tats for me, what was the domain of outsiders and individuals has become a display of bland conformism.
It seemed like after 08 every asshole has a full sleeve and an ironic pizza slice/moustache/unicorn tat somewhere. I can justify mine beause I'm a snob and because I got them back in day.

The sexiest girls I know are the ones comfortable in their own skin and who define themselves by their character and actions and not their appearance.
Still I think tats can be pretty hot but it depends on the motive behind getting them, piercings are awkward and outside of the novelty of being able to put a dick in an ear I don't get the ear stretching thing.
 
Hmm I'd like to be comfortable but my skin sucks I'm jealous of other chicks with flawless skin.

I loveeee tats I can't wait to get another one on fri! Woot woot!
 
Oh you are in for a lot of trouble lady. Please read a book by Dr. Phil called Life Code. It's in my opinion the only good product that came out of that non-sense TV show. Who you meet online is definitely not who you imagine. There's abusers and takers out there who use kind words to deceive you. You need to know your own value and not fall for that.

Maya's a good person not talking about her here. Just setting the right example.

LOL.....trust me, I am not that naive!!

There is a difference in saying kinds words to Maya because of conversations her and I have had and trusting some dumbass on the internet to be who they say they are and allow them to take some type of advantage of one. I look and see everyone and thing through a most critical eye with a lot of consideration on the internet..especially if they were to be allowed in a position to do some harm. That is hugely different. I never trust anyone..

Im surprised that you wouldnt see the difference in the two scenarios..
 
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please try to keep things focused on the topic at hand

this is a friendly reminder and warning
 
I have two tattoos, but no piercings besides my ears. I find men find that I have tattoos attractive.

And because I'm bisexual, I think I'll answer this one as well. (; I think piercings are nice on certain people, it depends on what piercing and their facial features for face piercings. Body piercings are hot. Tattoos are a definite turn on.
 
Depends on the size, design etc of the bod mod, I find Kat Von D very sexy though if that counts for anything.

My latest ex wasn't keen on my piercing (Prince Albert) or my tattoo's but the ex before her used to go crazy over them, each to their own I guess.
 
i don't necessarily think that tattoos or piercings are a bad thing, and its cool if that's your thing... but i think people who seriously believe getting tatted and pierced is some kind of way to "express themselves" are just beyond silly and think like children.

and stretched earlobes freak me out. no offense to anyone, just my opinion. i would never date a girl with stretched ears, its too close to self-mutilation for my taste. and like the thought of introducing a girl with stretched earlobes to my mother is laughable, like "oh hai mom, this is the girl i've been dating she mutilates her ears for the sake of hipster fashion, she's great you'll love her".
 
My ears closed back up after stretching them to 3/4 of an inch. They looked fucking huge too. They do close up if you don't go about stretching them the wrong way or too fast.

Just saying.

Some people do it really fast and fuck their ears up. Also some people get their ears cut with a scapel to jump gauges.

I personally don't see stretched ears as mutilation unless its a compulsive behavior. I used to have just about everything you could pierce done. I still wear earings sometimes, but not large gauge. Also I really like having my cock pierced.
 
Piercings: Depends. I find belly button piercing very sexy, and bog standard ear ones acceptable obviously, but as soon as it gets to nose, tongue, lip, or just a bit overboard, I'm not into that so much.

Tattoos: Again, it really depends on the tattoo, the amount and placement etc.

To be honest though if it was someone I liked enough it wouldn't make all that much difference to me.
 
It'd take forever to put into words.... I like bodymods, as long as they're not too extreme & then they must go together.
 
Yeah, I'm down with some others; why would that be a secret?

My personal opinion: as far as piercings go, really just standard ears and belly button rings are cute. Tattoos are a much tougher subject. Obviously this will depend strongly on where it is. I can do without most tattoos, including tramp stamps, but two places I view as guilty pleasures are hip/side (idk exactly what to call them. The sort running from around the lower section of a side over the butt/hip area and to mid/lower thigh, or even down the side of the leg) and ankle/upper foot tattoos.

I call tattoos guilty pleasures because while they can be very fine, I have a somewhat dim view of tattoos. In my mind it requires a certain rashness and lack of judgment and foresight to permanently mark one's self like that, with the innumerable downsides and virtually non-existent number of upsides. So the fact that I find certain tattoos on lasses to be super-duper cute clashes with the previously mentioned dim view of them and the fact that a chick having a tattoo indicates that she has a somewhat higher chance of being trashy. I'm absolutely not saying that having a tattoo would make a person trashy, I'm saying that trashy people simply happen to be more likely to get tattoos and therefore it's more likely that a person with a tattoo would be a trashy person. Regardless of how anyone feels about tattoos I think we can all agree on that, right?

Belly button rings are slightly similar in that they do tend to be worn by skankier chicks somewhat more often, most likely because most girls don't have people seeing their soft, bare tummehs all that often (any time you're dealing with something cosmetic that's normally covered by clothing, you're inevitably going to attract the kind of people who have people seeing them without clothing often enough that it matters), but other than that they're A-ok.
Note that I have no problems with skanky chicks or any sorts of anyones for that matter, I'm just speaking purely from the perspective of romantic interest. I have no room to judge anyone.

As to stretched ears...do we mean those weird ass god only knows whats that people sometimes walk around with flapping all over the place, the ones that look like they stuck oddly shaped tire rims in their ears and look absolutely absurd? Cause those look ridiculous on anyone, any time, regardless of gender or age. I can't say I've seen any cute girls that I can recall who have ever done that to themselves, it's always sorta gross-ish bizarre looking ones and guys who look like...well, I'll just leave it there.

But yeah, no secrets here. People usually like talking about what they find attractive, which is why I'm always puzzled as to why there's so much contention over what women like; why not just ask them? From what I've seen they're more than happy to tell you exactly what they're in to...although I guess that would require talking to females, and most guys who have romantic issues wouldn't have them if they were willing to do that...
 
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